"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some challenges for 2006

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1) The Nationality Challenge. There are 191 countries in the UN. How many girls can you meet/date/lay from the various countries.

2) Census Bureau Challenge- One Asian, One Caucasian, One African American, One Latina, One Pacific Islander

3) Tour the 50 states. Several Variations here. One girl from each state. One girl in each state. Doing the deed with your girl in all 50.

4) The Name Cycle: So you've had a Heather, how about a Jennifer, How about a Sarah. How many names can you get. Can you get the top 10 most popular girls names from 1980?

5) Age group, how many different ages can you score from18-40? (higher or lower range depending on your tastes)

6) Hair color challenge- Brunette, blonde, red head,etc.

7) Profession challenge- lawyer, doctor, saleswoman, etc.

8) Colleges- How many universities can you get women from.

9) Number of approaches in a month (I met 100 in one month this year, I want to top this number)

10) Venue challenge- Meet girls in several different venues. Bookstore, gym, club, church, etc. How many different places can you pick up from. Also create a PUA guide to the bars/clubs/restauraunts and other PU areas in your city.

11) The alcohol free challenge- Go out and sarge alcohol free. How do you feel. Does it change your game at all? In my case i have to do this for awhile due to a health problem.

12) The solo sarge. If you aren't used to going out alone try doing it.

There are so many challenges I'm excited about this year. Please post any ideas for ones you have related to women and pickup.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think I'm going to start a myspace profile. Could be interesting.
 
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Funny post. Props!

But I do #11 & #12 quite often anyway...
 
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Hey lads, I know I'm a bit too young to post here and all, but I'm curious..

First of all, #6 is a must do ^^

Now about you meeting 100 girls in one month. I'm curious, how did you go about this? That's about 3-4 girls a day, where you work from let's say 09-18h, that leaves you with another hour of traffic, so home at 19h. Then there's dinner, and it's 20h. Doesn't leave you (me) that many hours to go meet people, if you still wanne do some extra things at the house or whatever hobbies you might have. Then there's of course friday and saturdaynights, where you have the time to meet a lot of people, but to actualy meet 100 different girls in one month, seems hard to do in my mind, so I would like you to shift that limitation that I somehow have printed in my logic :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Charisma,

I met 100 girls by talking to everyone, everywhere. Including guys and old people. See if you can start conversations with everyone, you get in a social mood and it is natural when you see the hot girl.

I work in a place with alot of people. There are tons of new women so that was one place I met some of them. I'd talk to them in the elevator and the cafeteria. It was weird, I even really thought about number closing a girl at work when we waited in line for some food. But I didn't

Then after work I'd go out every night. It was the height of the baseball season and people are nuts about it in the city I'm in. There'd always be people out watching the game. I even had an opener I made up about girls that watch baseball!

But it is amazing because honestly after 2 or 3 days of talking to people you get in that mode and it is almost autopilot every time you see a girl.

The funniest part is when I got #99, I wanted #100 to be memorable, a hot girl and all that.

And it was pretty ironic because I was at the airport in line at a Starbucks, some girl had ordered a coffee and was looking at the pastries and didn't know which one she wanted. I pointed to one and said, "Well that ones 5 bucks". She started laughing because everyone knows how overpriced stuff is at Starbucks. Then the guy behind the counter in Starbucks got into the convo as well. I don't even remember what we chatted about at first but after I got her cup I said "Have a minute to sit down". And she did and we chatted for a while before she had to catch her flight (I was there way early as I often due so I don't have to rush for my flight).

It is really easy to start convos. In fact I recommend reading some stuff by Juggler. That guy is a natural conversationalist. I think the best first conversations with a girl are like that because they build alot of rapport.
 
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