r4zorsharp
Banned
- Joined
- Oct 3, 2020
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1) You never ask a girl about her emotions, her day, or anything that leads to being a support animal
2) Every interaction you have with a girl has to be playful or flirtacious or cool.. Think of the activity you are doing. That's as far s the scope goes. Within that scope, you can talk or do anything as long as its 1) playful,/flirtacious/cool You never try to figure her out, or wonder what else she has going on, or ask her about work,
3) Your personality needs to stand out at all times.. If you don't have one, don't try to fake it. you'll just make people think you're fake, especially people who know you not to be a certain way. Your personality starts from your appearance, and then the things you say, how you say them (slang terms you use, lingo you use, tonality, etc), A huge part about this is "BEING COOL". Whats being cool? Its always being in a zone of confidence and rarely showing negative emotions. It's having your own quirks that make u unique. It's also drawing parallels with schemes that already exist. These may be different from social clique to social clique.
4) Never, ever show negative emotions. In a girls mind this is jsut a huge turnoff or looks like cracks in your defenses. All women want the guy who seems like everything is golden in his life, who never gets upset unless he absolutely has to, and it seems like nothing can knock him off his throne/mountain. He might tilt from time to time, but he is never toppled. Anger is the primary negative emotion, sadness is a second one, but weakness comes from being in a combination of these 2. Many dudes who have trouble with woemn out there are constantly in a low form of these 2 negative emotions without realizing it. They simply aren't very happy with themselves and they're still angry about many things that they perceived happened to them or that life did to t hem.
5) Be yourself 100% and without any prejudice. This means, if you want to listen to your favorite song in a room full of people, dont hesitate to put it on. If feel a certain way about something, speak out, even if its against the crwod. Just be ready to have the wit and confidence to own it and make people know what it is. When you're 100% yourself, you talk about what you are into, your passions, you display your talents, and don't try to fit into whatever is going on at the moment, unless its pertinent to the social situation.
6) Know how to switch the topic. You can control any situation by what the topic and scope of things are. When you know how to switch topics, you can also learn how to control activities, and jump in and out of ones tht you like and ones that you don't. A confident man might be with a bunch of friends, and they want to go eat pizza, everyone will follow the majority. But the confident man he says "Im gonna go glaze some *****.. ill catch you all later" . He's not afraid to leave any situation at any time and do his own thing and hop in and out. This is also attractive because the people who are always around, everyone gets bored of.
7) Be confident sexually. A sexually confident man always has this air about him that no matter whats hes saying or how hes interacting with a woman, his whole vibe is telling her "man i could make you *** multiple times, and have you calling me daddy, make you forget all your fbuddies, and i don't give a damn about you at the same time cuz i got so mcuh going on"
All in all, most of us operate in the "professional" setting or "casual" setting where we're just kind of basic in how we talk , how we act, what we do.. Why is this? Because we're so used to being that way around people we hang around, or we're so used to working.
The dudes that are smooth usually are used to being and talking a certain way, because they hang around other cool/smooth people who are also very s successful with women. Being smooth is something you can develop and instantly tells people around you 1) you're a sexually confident person 2) you have this air about you that life is treating you very well 3) you are unapologetically you, and you love yourself more than anything else.
2) Every interaction you have with a girl has to be playful or flirtacious or cool.. Think of the activity you are doing. That's as far s the scope goes. Within that scope, you can talk or do anything as long as its 1) playful,/flirtacious/cool You never try to figure her out, or wonder what else she has going on, or ask her about work,
3) Your personality needs to stand out at all times.. If you don't have one, don't try to fake it. you'll just make people think you're fake, especially people who know you not to be a certain way. Your personality starts from your appearance, and then the things you say, how you say them (slang terms you use, lingo you use, tonality, etc), A huge part about this is "BEING COOL". Whats being cool? Its always being in a zone of confidence and rarely showing negative emotions. It's having your own quirks that make u unique. It's also drawing parallels with schemes that already exist. These may be different from social clique to social clique.
4) Never, ever show negative emotions. In a girls mind this is jsut a huge turnoff or looks like cracks in your defenses. All women want the guy who seems like everything is golden in his life, who never gets upset unless he absolutely has to, and it seems like nothing can knock him off his throne/mountain. He might tilt from time to time, but he is never toppled. Anger is the primary negative emotion, sadness is a second one, but weakness comes from being in a combination of these 2. Many dudes who have trouble with woemn out there are constantly in a low form of these 2 negative emotions without realizing it. They simply aren't very happy with themselves and they're still angry about many things that they perceived happened to them or that life did to t hem.
5) Be yourself 100% and without any prejudice. This means, if you want to listen to your favorite song in a room full of people, dont hesitate to put it on. If feel a certain way about something, speak out, even if its against the crwod. Just be ready to have the wit and confidence to own it and make people know what it is. When you're 100% yourself, you talk about what you are into, your passions, you display your talents, and don't try to fit into whatever is going on at the moment, unless its pertinent to the social situation.
6) Know how to switch the topic. You can control any situation by what the topic and scope of things are. When you know how to switch topics, you can also learn how to control activities, and jump in and out of ones tht you like and ones that you don't. A confident man might be with a bunch of friends, and they want to go eat pizza, everyone will follow the majority. But the confident man he says "Im gonna go glaze some *****.. ill catch you all later" . He's not afraid to leave any situation at any time and do his own thing and hop in and out. This is also attractive because the people who are always around, everyone gets bored of.
7) Be confident sexually. A sexually confident man always has this air about him that no matter whats hes saying or how hes interacting with a woman, his whole vibe is telling her "man i could make you *** multiple times, and have you calling me daddy, make you forget all your fbuddies, and i don't give a damn about you at the same time cuz i got so mcuh going on"
All in all, most of us operate in the "professional" setting or "casual" setting where we're just kind of basic in how we talk , how we act, what we do.. Why is this? Because we're so used to being that way around people we hang around, or we're so used to working.
The dudes that are smooth usually are used to being and talking a certain way, because they hang around other cool/smooth people who are also very s successful with women. Being smooth is something you can develop and instantly tells people around you 1) you're a sexually confident person 2) you have this air about you that life is treating you very well 3) you are unapologetically you, and you love yourself more than anything else.
