"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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some advie plz tnx!!!

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okay, me and this girl txting back and forth.. she started it. 30mins to 1 1/2 gap in between my txts

basically we are trying to arrange a date (im not gona type up EVERYTHING) and the ball has been in my court from the start btw)

++Last week, i told her i wanted to shoot people the following week++

1 week later...

hb:i got work this thursday =(. I am off this weekend though
me: plz do mention the day. I'm not a mind reader you know =)
hb: saturday or sunday!
me: 9pm saturday, pool hall in this city
hb: My sister is having a kick back party in LA, yadi yada, bla bla bla, we shoot people if the kickack doesnt happen

(WTF, she think im her fall back plan?)
me: some other time then. U seem busy (not afraid to loose her
hb: I am always busy lol. You can come with me to the kick back or we shoot pool?

i thought that was kinda disrepect that "IM THE FALL BACK PLAN".. but i havent responded to that since last night

tnx
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hmm... looks like you might be reading into things a bit too much.

Text back saying not sure if I'm free, but I might make an appearance. If it doesn't work out you can always bail when you get there.
 
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