"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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some advie plz tnx!!!

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okay, me and this girl txting back and forth.. she started it. 30mins to 1 1/2 gap in between my txts

basically we are trying to arrange a date (im not gona type up EVERYTHING) and the ball has been in my court from the start btw)

++Last week, i told her i wanted to shoot people the following week++

1 week later...

hb:i got work this thursday =(. I am off this weekend though
me: plz do mention the day. I'm not a mind reader you know =)
hb: saturday or sunday!
me: 9pm saturday, pool hall in this city
hb: My sister is having a kick back party in LA, yadi yada, bla bla bla, we shoot people if the kickack doesnt happen

(WTF, she think im her fall back plan?)
me: some other time then. U seem busy (not afraid to loose her
hb: I am always busy lol. You can come with me to the kick back or we shoot pool?

i thought that was kinda disrepect that "IM THE FALL BACK PLAN".. but i havent responded to that since last night

tnx
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hmm... looks like you might be reading into things a bit too much.

Text back saying not sure if I'm free, but I might make an appearance. If it doesn't work out you can always bail when you get there.
 
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