"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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some advice when meeting new prospects

mongoose01

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I know this has been said before, but I must reiterate it. Please, whatever you do...do not go into detail why your last relationship did not work out. Be vague, make some sh!t up-but do not go into great detail. Do not talk about the details of what wrong in your last relationship.

This info will be filed away and trust me when I say this. It will be sh!tted on you later. IT WILL BE USED AGAINST YOU.

Be vague. Just say, "we grew apart". If she keeps probing, just say something like, "we grew apart, I didn't work out, but I grew from that experience." Also try, "I really don't want to talk about it, because I learned from that experience and moved on so please allow me to do so."

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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