I met this girl in the beginning of July and she lives long distance from me(about 2 hours). We've been talking on the phone for the past month and a half. Probably talk to her longer than I should (usually an hour). I went to see her for the first time last weekend and we had a great time. I like her and I can see that shes pretty into me although she does think that i may be a bit of a player. My question is what to do next. Shes called me since I left on Sunday and emailed, but I wasnt there to answer her calls. Only got the message. Should I return all her calls or is that being too available? Not trying to play games with her, but I dont want to be anti-challenge either. What should I do?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Some advice please.....
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