I met this girl in the beginning of July and she lives long distance from me(about 2 hours). We've been talking on the phone for the past month and a half. Probably talk to her longer than I should (usually an hour). I went to see her for the first time last weekend and we had a great time. I like her and I can see that shes pretty into me although she does think that i may be a bit of a player. My question is what to do next. Shes called me since I left on Sunday and emailed, but I wasnt there to answer her calls. Only got the message. Should I return all her calls or is that being too available? Not trying to play games with her, but I dont want to be anti-challenge either. What should I do?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Some advice please.....
- Thread starter mecca411
- Start date