"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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some advice on moving too fast

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em1sir

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hi guys, been trolling for a while now, and just had a question maybe some of you could help me out with

been with this girl for about a couple weeks now..things have been great, and we get along fantastic. Lots of kino, which eventually led to heavy make out sessions

however she says to me one morning (after me getting up her skirt) that "we're moving too fast" and that she "feels bad about what we did last night". Thing is, she certainly wasn't complaining when we were fooling around and seemed to like what i was doing

not really sure how to take this..haven't talked to her again yet...any advice? should I back off, and take this as a sign of an oncoming LJBF?

and yes, i do see other women, but i've just been giving this one my time, since i think she's worth it

TIA fellas
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TYPICAL

Typical chick bullshyte, ON TO BERLIN my man.
 
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Rockstar, it seems like your the only kid on here...Just feel the situation out. Yes, you do have to respect her body and her choices, but if she wants it then give it to her!

Yeah, in the morning she is thinking about her church and her mom and dad, but when your suckin on her neck thats the last thing on her mind.

Just be smart, dont stop doing what has been working. If she says no, even jokingly then you have to stop. If a woman says no even once, then she can claim rape. she might be all up on your stuff, but she can say that she was afraid you might hurt her if she stopped. If she says anything like no, you get up and walk away, even if she begs you to come back. Thats her punishment for being stupid.

Just use your natural DJ skillz and common sense man.


"I made her an offer she couldn't refuse"
 
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it says your age by your name there pal

you were insinuating in your post above that we were all kids, heck you called us kids. i didnt say i disagreed with your post, i respect women as much as any man. all im saying is every situation is different. just see where the situation takes you. if your unsure just ask her.
 
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If you bone her and she says "we're going too fast" that means you didn't please her in da sack.

If you make her scream and call u daddy, then she'd be begging for more, you didn't so you get da boot!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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anyone else?

no, didnt go all the way that time..but hey, i think she was pleased with what she got based on her reactions, and how she kept telling me not to stop, am i wrong?

in the long run, i suppose it doesn't really matter what happens. If she doesn't come back for more, big deal. But on the other hand, this happens to me a lot, and i never know exactly how to deal with it

thanks so far buds
 
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