I am in a situation right now that I feel my personal involvement is preventing me from stepping back and seeing what the problem is and more importantly how to solve it.
I met this amazing girl at school and we just completely clicked and spent the last week I was at school together having a great time. I didn't want to seem too needy because I know that is a HUGE turn off to women, so when I came back from school for the summer (her and school are in LA, I live in LV) I didn't call her immediately. I waited about a week before I did and she seemed happy to hear from me - we chatted and all was well. I talked to her again a couple days later. Then I put off calling her because I didn't want to be the only one doing all the calling (again, that would look needy) but she didn't call me for like a week and a half so finally I called her and left her a message and she still hasn't called me back. I'm not exactly sure what to do here because I joke around a lot on the phone and perhaps she picked up some of my jokes and being needy, but either way I don't want to keep fvcking calling her after she didn't return my call because that would definately be needy. So as of now I haven't called her in like 2 weeks and I am not sure what to do because I think calling her would be a bad idea, especially if she's lost interest. Any advice (besides "Next her," I already have a girl out here in LV i'm banging but don't really care for) would be GREATLY appreciated. Thanks guys!
I met this amazing girl at school and we just completely clicked and spent the last week I was at school together having a great time. I didn't want to seem too needy because I know that is a HUGE turn off to women, so when I came back from school for the summer (her and school are in LA, I live in LV) I didn't call her immediately. I waited about a week before I did and she seemed happy to hear from me - we chatted and all was well. I talked to her again a couple days later. Then I put off calling her because I didn't want to be the only one doing all the calling (again, that would look needy) but she didn't call me for like a week and a half so finally I called her and left her a message and she still hasn't called me back. I'm not exactly sure what to do here because I joke around a lot on the phone and perhaps she picked up some of my jokes and being needy, but either way I don't want to keep fvcking calling her after she didn't return my call because that would definately be needy. So as of now I haven't called her in like 2 weeks and I am not sure what to do because I think calling her would be a bad idea, especially if she's lost interest. Any advice (besides "Next her," I already have a girl out here in LV i'm banging but don't really care for) would be GREATLY appreciated. Thanks guys!
. Trust the gut my friend. Of course just keep busy, hobbies, other friends (men or women,) and almost forget she exists.