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Some advice on bein in love with 2 girls

luckystory

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I love 2 girls, I’ve known 1 since I was 3 and the other 1 since I was 11. Let’s call girl 1 D. D is 26, she was in a long tern relationship since she was 14 and she broke up with him when she was 23. I’ve always stayed close to her as I’ve always liked her and now we become best friends. Since she broke up with her ex, I’ve started flirting and being more seductive and sexual. The thing is she works everyday to help out her parent’s debt and I never get to see her but we talk all the time on the phone.

Girl 2 T, she is also 26 and was in a long term relationship since the age of 16. Me and T are also best friends as I’ve got really close to her since she broke up with her ex as she is also really hot. As I see her a lot and we hang out and just together.
I’ve been sleeping with her on/off for 2 yrs now.

I still chat up other girls and get numbers because I can and im not in a relationship, there are girls who want to be with me but I just want to be with D or T and I don’t know how to choose.
T tells me LJBF but we always seem to end up in bed together.
With D I don’t have a clue how she feels about me apart from she tells me she loves me.
But I want more from D, but I also love T.

Any advice on what I should do would be great.
 

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luckystory

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Also how do i change T mind frame about LJBf. Also what the best way of finding out how D feels about me.
 

Gangster Of Love

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You love two women than don't love you back, not in the way you want them to.

T mind frame no be change. You, best hope, is to kiss D and find out how she feel about yu.
 

Desdinova

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Why, oh why would you bother? These women have long ago formed an opinion of you. They've known you for fvcking ever. To see you as more than that kid they grew up with is nearly impossible to change. It's likely they still remember you picking your nose, ****ting your diaper, or your pants falling down in the schoolyard.

The longer a woman has been friends with you, the more impossible it will be to seduce her.

There's so many other women out in the world. Go after some of them instead of trying to stay in your comfort zone.
 
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