"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Theres this girl that I like and we have gone out a couple a couple of times and we've kissed and hooked up together but I dont know if she wants to be boyfriend/girlfriend.

We talk on MSN alot and call occasionally and she often talks about other hot guys she sees and she talks to, but then again so do I(hot chicks). How can i break it too her that it would be good to get into a relationship and I want to get into a relationship with her before she actually gets together with one of these hot guys(Its my fear, yes I know thats bad but if it does happen ill get over it, I just dont particularly WANT it to happen)?

BTW I posted this in the DJ forum first but i should have posted it here first as im in HS
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She is also studying alot for the big end of school exam comming up in a few days (which shes very stressed about) hence she being unable to do anything at all with anyone (she stopped her studying just to come out with me a few times which she hasnt done for anyone else). So we cant really go out for a little while.
 
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Uhh why dont you "help her study"?

And turn it into some romance or something?
 
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