solved. ignore this thread.

[pbguru]

i had pre-existing plans with the new gf

i show up at her place, and she proceeds to tell me she has a hangover and only got 3 hrs of sleep

having just woken up (about noon) i wasnt thinking clearly...but on the ride home i did some thinking, and this is what i got:

its a slap in the face...it tells me im second fiddle to alcohol. now if i was totally awake and in the right frame of mind, i doubt i woulda stayed and continued with our plans. in fact i would have been as pissed off as i was on the ride home and not even walked into her place, but left right then

am i right on this? (and i plan on still telling her about it, the next time i talk to her)

 

[icepick]

Hahaha! Everyone is second fiddle to alcohol, cmon!

Anyway, you sound like a girl.

No offense, we all have those whiny times, I know.

My advice would be to never ever call her ever again. I don't like being blown off in the LEAST bit. No talking, no nothing. SNIP. Throw her back in the pond.

But that is me, and if I was you, I wouldn't listen to some f*ckhead on an internet message board.

 

[pbguru]

then let me clarify:

i wasnt blown off (she has NEVER cancelled on anything)...she still wanted to and decided to go...and she cooked me a big dinner

but i think i should have left as soon as i found out about the hangover, otherwise im being a doormat, correct?

 

[Julian]

dude she got drunk and had a hangover. What the hell do you expect. You say she ended up cooking you a fuccin a dinner and going with you anyway. Why are you b1tching?!

 

[pbguru]

ok...i got what i need out of this, thanks