Soft Generation?

[OlympicTim]

My dad was a big gambler. He would lose thousands. He would get drunk and ask me if I thought he should bet. I will tell him no. He would do it anyway lose and blame me. Now it wouldn't bother me. As a 16 yo kid it did.

Fair enough if I had to deal with something like that I would probably avoid it

 

[BlueAlpha1]

Several decades ago men decided they would start listening more to women and allowing women to make more decisions. Each generation of men since has expanded on that.. giving women more and more say, authority and power over their lives.

Today in 2015/2016 most men are pathetic, desperate, co-dependent emo faggots who have no purpose in life outside of accepting emotional slavery under any and every woman who will take the thrown. Today's men are raised to believe all things masculine are wrong, inappropriate, offensive and crude. But more importantly, men no longer take control of their identity. They allow women to dictate expectations of men, "relationship rules" etc. and they follow along with it.

Today's men don't dictate sh!t. They are puppy dogs worshiping women, employers and celebrities.

THIS.

And what's amazing to me is just knowing this changes the way you walk, talk, and carry yourself, and women notice when a guy just "gets it" without saying a word. I have a pretty intense poker face on when I walk around, and it communicates to women in less than 5 seconds "with a face like that he's not one to put up with **** from me." It's not a scowl as much as it is focus, no matter what. And these are often women who may be above my SMV, who can have any man on the planet. They check me out anyway.

 

[logicallefty]

THIS.

And what's amazing to me is just knowing this changes the way you walk, talk, and carry yourself, and women notice when a guy just "gets it" without saying a word. I have a pretty intense poker face on when I walk around, and it communicates to women in less than 5 seconds "with a face like that he's not one to put up with **** from me." It's not a scowl as much as it is focus, no matter what. And these are often women who may be above my SMV, who can have any man on the planet. They check me out anyway.

^^this. Same here. Sense my mindset completely transformed I not only get more women smiling or saying hi or just checking me out, but I also get more guys nodding at me or saying "hey". The mind is a powerful thing.

As for millenials, I know some individual ones who are outstanding people but the generation as a whole doesn't give me a lot of confidence.. You can only solve so many problems by Google searching or downloading an ap.. There comes a point where life requires real smarts and skills, and that generation doesn't seem to quite "get it". Maybe in time. Let's hope.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

^^this. Same here. Sense my mindset completely transformed I not only get more women smiling or saying hi or just checking me out, but I also get more guys nodding at me or saying "hey". The mind is a powerful thing.

As for millenials, I know some individual ones who are outstanding people but the generation as a whole doesn't give me a lot of confidence.. You can only solve so many problems by Google searching or downloading an ap.. There comes a point where life requires real smarts and skills, and that generation doesn't seem to quite "get it". Maybe in time. Let's hope.

I'm not getting the smiling or the hello's, but I will get eye contact usually followed by the look away. But the way I am now, I will stare at a girl for 10 seconds unabashedly. I think my expressions probably toe the line of too aggressive. Finding the balance between looking like a focused man on a mission or a disgruntled a-hole is a challenge.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

And yes, 95% of the guys out there are a disgrace to masculinity as a concept. It's not just our age group though, the Baby Boomers are guilty of it too. It's where this "happy wife, happy life" crap came from. Look around and you'll see millions of 48 year old men who are fat, bald, speak in a high pitched tone, working emasculating jobs and talking about "the boss" back home. It's sickening.

 

[raider87]

But the way I am now, I will stare at a girl for 10 seconds unabashedly. I think my expressions probably toe the line of too aggressive

I made a conscious effort to do this the other day at the mall. I almost wanted to start a thread about eye contact and how long you should hold it.