Soft during sex? [Moved to AE per site rules]

[OlympicTim]

So I lost my virginity today.

However i ended up going soft inside the girl.

I was hard as a rock when we were cuddling as she was getting naked etc etc and once I put it in i went soft and couldnt finish

Any thoughts?

 

[Lozboss]

What's your penis sensitivity like?

I'm thinking since you were a virgin you probably choke the chicken a fair amount- probably fast and hard.

Over time this ruins your sensitivity. An example is condoms- they simulate the same loss of sensitivity and that's why loads of men go soft once they put it on.

Take a break from masturbating at all from a month. You'll soon find it isn't a problem.

 

[Bingo-Player]

probably just first time nerves

your mind plays a massive part in the strength and length of your erections

ive fvcked hoes rock hard for hours , when it comes to a girl i really like and i want to impress her it can take me up to an hour to even get a boner due to stress

seriously relaxing is the best thing you can do

 

[LiveFreeX]

probably just first time nerves

My first time I couldn't get it off at all. I was so blown away by the fact that I had a naked girl in front of me and the pressure was on to show her a good time.

Now I'm so comfortable, I'm lucky to last 5 minutes with my wife.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Did you wear a condom? many of us lose pressure the same moment we wear one, it takes a minute to get back to full.

 

[GS750]

It's nerves bro. It happened to me in the past too. Don't sweat it. And congrats on losing your v card.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Sexual performancy anxiety. It is perfectly normal. I was so nervous the first time I couldn't get it up at all. It will improve as you gain more experience.

 

[ubercat]

Hmm I think the mods will get me if I post here on technique. Post in the 'anything else' forum and I ll answer or pm me.

 

[Dealler]

So I lost my virginity today.

However i ended up going soft inside the girl.

I was hard as a rock when we were cuddling as she was getting naked etc etc and once I put it in i went soft and couldnt finish

Any thoughts?

Just don´t take some stupid advices like no fap challenge etc. It´s just anxiety. Pretty common.

 

[ubercat]

K firstly I agree with the other guys it sounds just like nerves. Now getting a bit specific so anyone this is going to offend please stop reading.


If u ve got a semi soft to work with. Roll her over onto her stomach. Once u ve entered use your legs to push her legs together. Fvck her by sliding forward. Play with her ****. She s going to start grinding down on the hand which is playing with her love button. this will make her naturally clench up. believe me there will be plenty of moaning and wriggling too. Should get the job done.