Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sofomore

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Another fvcking journal? Are you kidding me? Yup. :yes:

Time to share my failures and successes with you guys. I am a 21 yr old, just out of a two year relationship in college. I will be posting in here as often as possible.

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  • Approaches
  • Lay Reports
  • Gym Log

Off to study! Back soon with some material.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm liking this journal trend we have going on; I try to read every one that's posted. Keeping a journal allows you to reflect on what you've been doing and lets other comment on things that you might not be aware of.
 

Sofomore

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Wow, I guess I'm pretty bad at keeping a journal.

Lots has been going on since the break-up. Fvcked two girls last weekend...one friday night and one saturday. Felt damn good to be back in the game. These girls weren't too hot...but I'd give them each 7s.

Time to step it up and get some 8s, 9s, and 10s.

I recently was flying to my grandparent's place on Southwest for Thanksgiving. As I was getting on the plane, in a raggedy outfit and sleepy, I saw a cute girl talking to what looked like a 15-year old. As I saw her I thought "DAMN!!" as it was too late for me to approach her.

I sit down, ready to doze off on the plane and the same cute girl is coming up the aisle. We make eye contact and she asks "Is anyone sitting here?"

"Nope, go ahead...but it costs 2 dollars to sit next to me"

She laughs and settles in, and BOOM we are having a great conversation. I was a little self-conscious because I was kind of sick, but we still hit it off. She was laughing as we shared stories, finding out we go to the same school and we have friends in common. Fast forward, she is telling me about the music she likes and I tell her to write down some suggestions of people to listen to.

She writes down two random artists and I tell her to write her number. As she is doing so I joke with her that I will never call her.

After this I look around and notice about 5 people staring at me. A couple dudes were mugging...it seemed like they were thinking "Man, fvck this guy! he got her number!"

Anyway, we part ways...kinda awkwardly giving her a hug.

I call her today, no answer. She calls back asking who it is. I suggest we go bowling on Thursday as a study break (finals next week). She says "Im looking forward to it".

I'll let you know how it goes...should be a fun time. Couldn't get a good look but I hope she has a big A$$!!
 
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