"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sofomore's Life Journal

Sofomore

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Another fvcking journal? Are you kidding me? Yup. :yes:

Time to share my failures and successes with you guys. I am a 21 yr old, just out of a two year relationship in college. I will be posting in here as often as possible.

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  • Approaches
  • Lay Reports
  • Gym Log

Off to study! Back soon with some material.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm liking this journal trend we have going on; I try to read every one that's posted. Keeping a journal allows you to reflect on what you've been doing and lets other comment on things that you might not be aware of.
 

Sofomore

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Wow, I guess I'm pretty bad at keeping a journal.

Lots has been going on since the break-up. Fvcked two girls last weekend...one friday night and one saturday. Felt damn good to be back in the game. These girls weren't too hot...but I'd give them each 7s.

Time to step it up and get some 8s, 9s, and 10s.

I recently was flying to my grandparent's place on Southwest for Thanksgiving. As I was getting on the plane, in a raggedy outfit and sleepy, I saw a cute girl talking to what looked like a 15-year old. As I saw her I thought "DAMN!!" as it was too late for me to approach her.

I sit down, ready to doze off on the plane and the same cute girl is coming up the aisle. We make eye contact and she asks "Is anyone sitting here?"

"Nope, go ahead...but it costs 2 dollars to sit next to me"

She laughs and settles in, and BOOM we are having a great conversation. I was a little self-conscious because I was kind of sick, but we still hit it off. She was laughing as we shared stories, finding out we go to the same school and we have friends in common. Fast forward, she is telling me about the music she likes and I tell her to write down some suggestions of people to listen to.

She writes down two random artists and I tell her to write her number. As she is doing so I joke with her that I will never call her.

After this I look around and notice about 5 people staring at me. A couple dudes were mugging...it seemed like they were thinking "Man, fvck this guy! he got her number!"

Anyway, we part ways...kinda awkwardly giving her a hug.

I call her today, no answer. She calls back asking who it is. I suggest we go bowling on Thursday as a study break (finals next week). She says "Im looking forward to it".

I'll let you know how it goes...should be a fun time. Couldn't get a good look but I hope she has a big A$$!!
 
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