You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
.Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
And this applies to a CHINESE man marrying a CHINESE woman how?sparky0000 said:
Great point. And to the point that he thinks she is beautiful, he grew up in China. He grew up with a certain ideal for what is attractive in a woman, both physically and emotionally. Plus they were high school sweethearts, which I'm sure means a lot more in China than it does here.Serialized3 said:The caption says that she was his teenage sweetheart.
Imagine this: maybe he actually cares for her on a deeper level than just her looks? Maybe she treats him like a god. Maybe she's a demon in the sack. Maybe he actually thinks she's beautiful.
You guys are painfully shallow.
. Seriously, without knowing what's great about her, how can you so quickly judge her based solely on looks, and think Yao is crazy for wanting to marry someone he's been courting for 8 years just because you don't think she's attractive? ~attrACTION~ made a good point too, that there's almost no doubt she loves him for him, and not his fame and fortune. Though I'm sure those don't count against him either .You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Seriously, the dude is 7'6". And how many Chinese women even close to his height are also going to be hot? And for him to marry an average-sized woman would be like you marrying a midget.ConantheLibertarian said:And she's probably one of thew few Chinese women who can come close to taking him all in
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Whoa. Did **** not get edited? Does that mean swearing is finally uncensored?Deus ex Pianoforte said:
I don't know man.. there are some women in the wNBA I'd nail.wayword said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.