Aztec
Master Don Juan
That's crazy!Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
At least girls apreciate me working out, although they still think £1100 for a bike is crazy![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That's crazy!Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
At least girls apreciate me working out, although they still think £1100 for a bike is crazy![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That is probably one of the funniest things I've ever read.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
"Fat people are people too!"
(More like 3 people)
I think that the reason the majority comes out on top in this case is because fat is more buoyant.Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
Fact is people like themselves and there for the voice of the majority always comes out on top.
At least girls apreciate me working out, although they still think £1100 for a bike is crazy![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:I think that the reason the majority comes out on top in this case is because fat is more buoyant.
I believe it. Masses of people tend to reflect the environment they share. I was in France for several weeks last winter and without working out I ended up loosing weight and became more fit! All I did was eat like the Parisians and walked instead of driving. I didn't change what I ate, just the amount plus I ate more frequently. It was difficult the first week but after that it was a piece of cake! :crackup:Originally posted by Alpine
Of course the big thing now is 'Passive Fattening', research has discovered that just by being with people who are fat you are 10 times more likely to become fat yourself.
This is a very worrying although some medical authorities disagree with these findings.
Experiments with rats found that fat rats gave off chemical 'signals' similar to pheromones that made other rats eat more. The findings concluded humans may well have a similar chemical 'messenger' that induces overeating where fat people are present.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You are correct about the Parisians diet however they do four noticeable things that I feel contribute to their healthier appearance:Originally posted by Alpine
Despite being only 30miles from the English coast, France's culture and lifestyle is very different to ours, in fact ours is much more like the US, and increasingly so.
One main area is diet, in so far as if you go to France most food is home prepared and unadulterated with fat and sugar. They drink a fair bit and eat fatty meat, but they are still much healthier than us.
My theory is a big part of it is social eating. Years ago people here used to sit around the table and eat together.
It was at a liesurely pace and people talked to each other. This still is the norm in most European countries, but not UK.
I suspect unwittingly we eat less when eating as a family and unhurried.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This is one of those generalizations that ruin the credibility of this site.but maybe if there were less single-mother homes, the eating disorders would be less effing COMMON.
Originally posted by Alpine
Of course the big thing now is 'Passive Fattening', research has discovered that just by being with people who are fat you are 10 times more likely to become fat yourself.
This is a very worrying although some medical authorities disagree with these findings.
Experiments with rats found that fat rats gave off chemical 'signals' similar to pheromones that made other rats eat more. The findings concluded humans may well have a similar chemical 'messenger' that induces overeating where fat people are present.
Originally posted by Luveno
Accepting fatness was not really used as a way to curb anorexia. It was an excuse so fat people could stay fat. Far more people die of obesity related disease than anorexia. If anything, fat people should be treated like smokers: go be fat somewhere else, and pay fat tax. They should be continuously reminded that it's not sexy. Heck, they should be given subpoenas to the gym!
Sure, That's extreme and would never work but it would be nice if it did.
Oh yes our nation is just so liberal right now, especially with the Republicans running all 3 branches of governmentOriginally posted by Aztec
That's what we get when we live in a excessively liberal, PC nation.
Originally posted by GlutusMaximus86
Oh yes our nation is just so liberal right now, especially with the Republicans running all 3 branches of government. If you really think our nation is too liberal, go move to Australia.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.