"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Socially proactive, sexually reactive...the way?

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Single_Sucks

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Why is it that....

....when I go out and DO NOT make any moves on girls and DO NOT worry about pulling them, when I only worry about having fun, being sociable and making good conversation.....

....that is when the girl will start to make the moves or at least big indications of interest in my direction and that I end up getting some action?

In other words, I've found more success when girls make the first move, not the traditional way. When I am SOCIALLY PRO-ACTIVE, but SEXUALLY RE-ACTIVE
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If you are framed as the prize, you will naturally have more success than if she is the prize to be "earned"
 
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An attractive girl will not have trouble getting a guy to be "sexually pro-active". When you seem unphased by her, she begins to wonder why you aren't wrapped around her sexy little finger. This creates curiosity, attraction, and a challenge.

It is important to never be afraid to get sexual though, as you seem to know. If you hold off too long, they'll just think youre a *****.
 
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