I'm looking to possibly get a part-time job in addition to my 9-5 that focuses on developing social skills, marketing, sales, networking, and primarily working with people face-to-face. Basically public relations of sorts. The money I get from it is secondary to what I want to learn from it. I was thinking some sort of promotional work. I contemplated bartending, but upon further thinking it probably won't do a whole lot for me. Does anyone here have what they would consider a "social networking/public relations" job or could recommend one?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Socially developing part-time job?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
My part time job is basically everything you just described - Bank Teller. Basically im standing at a computer for hours on end carrying out peoples financial transactions, as well as trying to help save them money and solve their problems. You basically speak with random people for hours on end (Face to face). Its good networking because you get to know people within the banking network, as well as opportunity to move up. There is definately a sales aspect of it as well, offering people visas, accounts, loans, LOC's etc. You should look into man
Unbridled_Phoenix
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Be a server if you don't wanna bar tend.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Sales, sales, and sales. And if those don't work out, try some kind of sales job.
Get one of those sales job trying to sign people up for cell phone plans or something, or some weekend comissioned sales job at the mall or something.
Like at circuit city (or some place like that that ain't out of business.) anything retail/sales/commissions is good.
easy to get, but hard to make money out. Try and find one where you have to go out into the general population and open strangers to make money.
I worked as a model scout for a while. The company was a scam, but the experience was priceless.
Get one of those sales job trying to sign people up for cell phone plans or something, or some weekend comissioned sales job at the mall or something.
Like at circuit city (or some place like that that ain't out of business.) anything retail/sales/commissions is good.
easy to get, but hard to make money out. Try and find one where you have to go out into the general population and open strangers to make money.
I worked as a model scout for a while. The company was a scam, but the experience was priceless.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Re: model scout job
It was a big scam, we'd go out and recruit girls, of all ages, and they'd come in and pay big cash to put their bio-stats into a national "database" that was supposedly tapped by all kinds agencies that wanted fresh talent.
We'd head out every day with a stack of business cards, and try to get as many girls to come in for an "appointment," where all kinds of photos and stuff would be taken, and then in a couple days later a "counselor" would recommend the "package" that would get them the most "exposure."
The counselor was nothing more than a hard hitting closer.
For everyone that signed, we got a healthy commission.
I couldn't do it for very long. The look of all those people got to me. Just sitting there (some even parents with their little kids) hoping to get "discovered," only to get scammed out of several hundred dollars.
It was good for walking up girls in groups, pairs, by themselves, and trying to convince them to come in for a "shoot."
Probably still around, just google "model scout."
You'll be scamming people, but you'll be getting paid to do cold walkups and improve your closing skills.
It was a big scam, we'd go out and recruit girls, of all ages, and they'd come in and pay big cash to put their bio-stats into a national "database" that was supposedly tapped by all kinds agencies that wanted fresh talent.
We'd head out every day with a stack of business cards, and try to get as many girls to come in for an "appointment," where all kinds of photos and stuff would be taken, and then in a couple days later a "counselor" would recommend the "package" that would get them the most "exposure."
The counselor was nothing more than a hard hitting closer.
For everyone that signed, we got a healthy commission.
I couldn't do it for very long. The look of all those people got to me. Just sitting there (some even parents with their little kids) hoping to get "discovered," only to get scammed out of several hundred dollars.
It was good for walking up girls in groups, pairs, by themselves, and trying to convince them to come in for a "shoot."
Probably still around, just google "model scout."
You'll be scamming people, but you'll be getting paid to do cold walkups and improve your closing skills.
Gotcha .. I don't think I'd want to do that. I'm considering get a certification for personal training. I'm a non-competitive bodybuilder and have been training for years so I do know a good deal about health, exercise, and nutrition ... just not from a formal education. Personal training might be a good social job, no?
well, you could always be a club photographer for a website. You get to meet tons of people every night you go out and you most likely will get a couple girlfriends out of it who call you every time they want to go do something.
The only catch is that you can't be shy and you have to approach groups. Can pay well if you stick with it. Well, and you have to buy a professional camera...
The only catch is that you can't be shy and you have to approach groups. Can pay well if you stick with it. Well, and you have to buy a professional camera...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Interesting idea. The other thing I should mention is that I want a socially developing part time job so I can make some new friends. Hardly anyone at my 9-5 hangs out together (most have girlfriends or wives) and it's 99% guys with just a handful around my age. There's 1 dude I hang out with regularly (really cool guys but kinda strange), and 1-2 who sometimes join us. That's the extent of my friends right now, which sucks - so I need to change that too.
I thought of joining some sort of club or function, but not sure what. I have maybe 3 hours a night on weeknights after I get back from the gym (8pm or later) for anything before I go to bed, though my weekends are flexible.
I thought of joining some sort of club or function, but not sure what. I have maybe 3 hours a night on weeknights after I get back from the gym (8pm or later) for anything before I go to bed, though my weekends are flexible.
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
If you're attractive and have a good build, consider stripping. Its the easiest cash you'll ever make. Its a totally fun job, especially if you're single, and the cash is sick. I make an average of 200 cash for like a 20-30 minute show. If you have 3-4 shows in one night, you can easily pull 800-1000+ cash in one night. Its got the best stress:cash ratio of any job that I can think of! Its all tax free too, and its instant cash in your pocket, for basically partying and entertaining women!
Its a great job for having tons of fun, and supplementing your income.
Its a great job for having tons of fun, and supplementing your income.
Heh, yes I'm attractive and have a good build (bodybuilder), but stripping isn't for me. I understand it's good money but it's not something I'd like to be associated with. I'm heading out to some gyms around the area now. As for the model scout idea, not sure I can do that either ... I wouldn't feel right.
i just started my lifestyle consulting business. mainly i help guys increase their chance of success in dating/confidence/ and help them develop goals/drives/passion. We talk about girls, work, life, anything. It's alot of fun sometimes stressful writing up plans since it's still a start up but it's definately a part time job that could turn full time that is fun and exciting. Plus its nice when my clients offer to hook me up with events and things related to their profession/skills.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
yes i do make money from it. my client base is small right now but i make okay part time money while enjoying my time. you can check out my website which is still under construction. www.getlifestyleconsulting.com it should explain the questions you seek answers to.