"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Social services reported her.

Bolond

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I went to talk to social services about my kid.
When my ex has him she treat him poor.
She told me she took him for timeouts,took him to a room,went out and closed the door. Ive seen the kid playing with sextoys at her place. She also use her parents to babysit when she is at work. The parents has a history of alkohol. They have raised three kids while drinking. My ex has told me stuff they did when she was a kid due to alkohol.
She is a mess due to childhood.

She is very sexual and uses sextoys,porn,and now fwb:s. Im so worried about our kid. She talked a lot about our kids penis and made jokes about the penis.
She is the mother of my kid. Now she is reported....I hope she gets help.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Romanemp22

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I went to talk to social services about my kid.
When my ex has him she treat him poor.
She told me she took him for timeouts,took him to a room,went out and closed the door. Ive seen the kid playing with sextoys at her place. She also use her parents to babysit when she is at work. The parents has a history of alkohol. They have raised three kids while drinking. My ex has told me stuff they did when she was a kid due to alkohol.
She is a mess due to childhood.

She is very sexual and uses sextoys,porn,and now fwb:s. Im so worried about our kid. She talked a lot about our kids penis and made jokes about the penis.
She is the mother of my kid. Now she is reported....I hope she gets help.
If the kid is 100% yours, get full custody on him/her. Thats not healthy enviorment to grow up into
 

Bolond

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I trust the social services and they are going to do a investigation. Hope it turnes out Good.
 

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If you want any comments on the relevant law involved, it would help to know your country or state if you are in the USA.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bolond

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AND last week preeschool made an complaint. We went to social securites for a talk. Our kid often not there on my exes weeks. My weeks is Good. They arranged it so the kid must be at preschool even if my ex is Free from work. I get so tired of my ex who dnt put our child FIRST in her life! She "wants" work night and she "wants" to live 40 mins in car from preeschool....
 
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