"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Drdeee

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Dude, aren't you guy who said you're too fat to do a bootcamp now and need to loose like 400 lbs before you approach your first girl? I mean wtf makes you qualified to write an ebook and give advice???

I think I'll stick to pook.
 

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Wtf, I never admitted that I was overweight, and I don't need a bootcamp.

What's wrong with having a social life if you've got a belly? Wtf? I'm not claiming this is for picking up girls, but for laying down a social foundation first. And sure I'm qualified to do that, I'm a psychologist ffs! And I have a girlfriend atm... so there's no need to pick up girls for me...
 

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Yes... I wrote that, so??? What's your point... Because i've been sick for a while I can't talk about socializing?; I have years of expertise, I even coached people two years ago (but because of my sickness I stopped doing that).

Sure I sit at home a lot, because the doctor indeed said so. Just taking his advice. But I do get out of my house, to have a good time in the weekends (minus the drinks).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thx I'll read it right after I'll be done with "maintain an empire while avoiding Bankruptcy" written from the Lehman Brothers. :whistle:
 

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Haha, I'm not sure why everybody is jumping down the OP's throat? You have all kinds of keyboard jockeys get up here and post "advice" and the last time they approached a girl George Bush was still President.

If you are going to egg Vortex, egg them all. If folks aren't posting field reports, pics, threads about individual GIRLS they are dating, then in my opinion they have no credibility (including POOK, I can't count for one fvcking field report that got posted on here, just theories).
 

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JT7890 said:
Haha, I'm not sure why everybody is jumping down the OP's throat? You have all kinds of keyboard jockeys get up here and post "advice" and the last time they approached a girl George Bush was still President.

:crackup: that had me rollin
 

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JT7890 said:
Haha, I'm not sure why everybody is jumping down the OP's throat? You have all kinds of keyboard jockeys get up here and post "advice" and the last time they approached a girl George Bush was still President.

If you are going to egg Vortex, egg them all. If folks aren't posting field reports, pics, threads about individual GIRLS they are dating, then in my opinion they have no credibility (including POOK, I can't count for one fvcking field report that got posted on here, just theories).
Take it easy mate,and about the last approaches happened during the bush era,keep in mind that in this forum we're all serious people and we don't do gay stuff like approaching girls.
 

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Like I said, this is for picking up girls... it's just for laying a social foundation, actually I wrote it for people with social anxiety. No I don't have field reports, and have a girlfriend, just a cute girl... Why do I need to post field reports if it's just for some basic social advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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