"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Social phobia?

thefonz

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I'm gonna set you free right now boys.

I had (thought I had) this 'disease' for many years in my late teens and early 20's. I would avoid people, friends, family members because I was so socially scared. I was convinced by commmercials, "doctors", and internet sites that I had Social Anxiety Disorder. I had all the symptoms, thought about it everyday. Then I discovered something through my own personal and objective experiences....IT DOESN'T EXIST!! I swear on everything I am that your social phobias are a result of low self-esteem and brainwashing. Believe me.

This site is a fantastic tool for breaking out of the anxiety hole. Meditation, running, a high fruit and vege diet, and dj bootcamps can all help you break out of your intial rut.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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