“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Duke

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I don't do social media anymore. Haven't for several years.

But was curious, does the amount of followers and likes your social media gets make a difference in your dating success?
 

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I don't do social media anymore. Haven't for several years.

But was curious, does the amount of followers and likes your social media gets make a difference in your dating success?

The main reason I have Social media is to keep in touch with family and old friends from the past. Also to keep me informed of current trends or breaking news. Other than that, I would say for me personally, it doesn't really make a difference in my dating life.

I'd say it probably would if to leave an impression of some sorts or as social proof just in case you know a girl and your friends with her on social media. But I don't use it as my main source of meeting new women.
 

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Yes if you're dating women in their 20s. Anything older, it doesn't matter.
 

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Social media, specially instagramis the absolute most important factor in dating when it comes to women that are 6s and above, aged 18-25

second is confidence

the hotter the girl, the more important your social media image is

your smv is initially determined by your social media.
Your smv is then later verified by your confidence during the dates
 

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I have essentially zero socials and that has been a 'red flag' for some girls.
 

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Simple experiment

imagine yourself approaching a hot girl now. She laughs, giggles, gives you her number then forgets about you. You text her a day later and she’s already been messaged by 6 other guys, been hit on by other guys, she wonders if you’re a loner and her cat is unwell.

now imagine you approach a hot girl. You exchange instagrams. She sees you have 10,000 followers, pictures with celebrities, holiday pictures, topless pictures which impress her, a luxury car, other women in your comments and pictures etc you catch my drift

she then watches your stories for 2 weeks and gets a window in your higher status world

in the second scenario, your smv has skyrocketed
 
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