Social Media Day Game

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

ThisNThat

Banned

May 20, 2017

Considering I live in a more suburban area where most of the population is married or spoken for, I've come to find other avenues where approaching women through Facebook groups may be an option.

Some are "virtual yard sale" groups or just all around "Whats happening in <name of small town>" groups. Usually I look for "Single" as their relationship status, but if I don't see that...but see her and no man anywhere on her FB, I would have a go at it there.

Do you advise this level of approach via social media depending on your living situation?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.