Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Social media blocking - Yes or no

BetterCallSaul

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This is a good example of an inherent problem with young men in our society today. He makes a decision, reads up on some internet article (probably written by a feminist for all we know) that says to do the opposite, then starts questioning himself if what he did was right.

How about making a decision and sticking to it, you know, like a man?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Obsidian

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I once had a girl that I dumped unfriend me (not block), and I felt like it showed weakness on her part. So that's why I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't want to give the chick the satisfaction of feeling like she hurt me.
 
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