"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Social Life

we all eat food

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Ok so i still have no social life, but this friday night im going to Six Flags with my school and alot of other schools are going but its something you sign up to goto. so what should i do. Like when im there because i know after this weekend ill be back to my normal life and i will have no social life :mad:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Holland

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Just go and enjoy yourself. Amusement parks are fun. It's better then staying at home and doing nothing.
 

we all eat food

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i am going but I want to have a social life and i have no idea how to intiate any hanging out techniques or doing anythign like that
 

The Comeback Kid

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Originally posted by we all eat food
i am going but I want to have a social life and i have no idea how to intiate any hanging out techniques or doing anythign like that
You: Hey (girl's name), what's up?
Her: (whatever she says). u?
You: I'm doing alright. You want to go on ________(ride)________with me? I think it will be fun (that last part is optional)
Her: Yes

There you go - easy as that (I think). Just be sure you know the girl already. If not, try talking to her a little bit, then asking if she wants to go on a ride with you.

And unless you are pretty sure a chick likes you, I dunno if I'd go on the Tunnel of Love lol.

Overall, just try to have an open mind. Try to make the best out of this situation - it's a lower risk-higher reward possibility.
 

LikRetsam

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Get a new user name.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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we all eat food

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im just using this as a blog as smooth player wants me todo so i need help WITH GENERAL **** like that. Im totally clueless in all that.
 

kegger

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Make the best of it, if nothing else make some knew friends, show you are fearless and maybe find a lonely attractive (to you) girl and drag her on the biggest roller coaster there. This will be great for kino. Have fun and maybe you will come out of it with a social life. Do you have any skating rinks around ur plave. I love to go skating, it don't cost much and you have the opertunity to outskate the jocks, ect. Try it sometimes, and it might take time to learn to skate if you do not already know how. And you don't even have to skate, there are people there that just go to hang out. Hope it all goes well.
 

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just have fun man. if your analyzing every second of the day and everyones actions, your not gonna enjoy your self, and you certainly arent gonna get any friends.
 
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