"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Social Life

we all eat food

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Ok so i still have no social life, but this friday night im going to Six Flags with my school and alot of other schools are going but its something you sign up to goto. so what should i do. Like when im there because i know after this weekend ill be back to my normal life and i will have no social life :mad:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Holland

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Just go and enjoy yourself. Amusement parks are fun. It's better then staying at home and doing nothing.
 

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i am going but I want to have a social life and i have no idea how to intiate any hanging out techniques or doing anythign like that
 

The Comeback Kid

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Originally posted by we all eat food
i am going but I want to have a social life and i have no idea how to intiate any hanging out techniques or doing anythign like that
You: Hey (girl's name), what's up?
Her: (whatever she says). u?
You: I'm doing alright. You want to go on ________(ride)________with me? I think it will be fun (that last part is optional)
Her: Yes

There you go - easy as that (I think). Just be sure you know the girl already. If not, try talking to her a little bit, then asking if she wants to go on a ride with you.

And unless you are pretty sure a chick likes you, I dunno if I'd go on the Tunnel of Love lol.

Overall, just try to have an open mind. Try to make the best out of this situation - it's a lower risk-higher reward possibility.
 

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Get a new user name.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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im just using this as a blog as smooth player wants me todo so i need help WITH GENERAL **** like that. Im totally clueless in all that.
 

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Make the best of it, if nothing else make some knew friends, show you are fearless and maybe find a lonely attractive (to you) girl and drag her on the biggest roller coaster there. This will be great for kino. Have fun and maybe you will come out of it with a social life. Do you have any skating rinks around ur plave. I love to go skating, it don't cost much and you have the opertunity to outskate the jocks, ect. Try it sometimes, and it might take time to learn to skate if you do not already know how. And you don't even have to skate, there are people there that just go to hang out. Hope it all goes well.
 

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just have fun man. if your analyzing every second of the day and everyones actions, your not gonna enjoy your self, and you certainly arent gonna get any friends.
 
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