Nicholas Hill
Master Don Juan
Social Filters
Introduction
Now that I am back in the circle of untaken men, I thought it would be good to express the wisdom I have gained in the past few years, and hence, I present to you this guide on where to meet good women. Good in multiple senses of the word.
One of the pitfalls that men fall into in modern relationships / dating or seduction is the lack of a concept of where to go in order to get the right girl. Often I used to ask myself: “So, where are the meeting places? Where are the venues?”. Often, the first choice that came to mind was “Go clubbing” or “Chat up girls on the street”. Although they have their merits at times, there’s no way of knowing the type of girl you are talking to and possibly forming a short or long term relationship with. Maybe this guide will be useful if you feel that way.
A social filter is a method of extracting lots of undesirable attributes in women with the least amount of effort. The only action you have to perform is to choose where to meet these women.
A club, for example, is a social filter, but it is not a very good social filter. The reason for this is simple: it’s the type of girl that goes to a club. They may have a lot of issues, they may be too loose (for even a person who thinks or is hoping to be a Don Juan) or they may simply be girls who want a lot of attention without giving anything back. Worse still, they could be future cheating monkeys, always looking for the next, better branch on the tree.
A charitable event, however, is an alternative example of a social filter. In this case, it is a particularly good social filter. Imagine the kinds of girls you would meet if you were performing charitable work alongside them. They would be kind, caring, considerate – and probably emotionally stable. The charitable filter removes a lot of the undesirable attributes and women from the scene, leaving good ones. Sure, it is possible that the women you meet in situations of charity may not look as sexy or as cute as the girls in a club or pub, but then again, I’m sure you have all met a girl who, say, grew up ugly and turned out beautiful (but doesn’t know it yet, shhh!). Or you may find that it is you who needs to change. You will get beyond breast size and appreciate the woman. But anything is possible.
I should inform you that I make no promises. The word “filter” is a very carefully selected word. Applying a social filter does not remove all of the undesirable attributes of women or the undesirable women themselves. Believe me, you will still get unstable girls on campus, but it is possible that fewer of them will exist when compared to the types of girls who go to pubs.
And so, I present to you a list of all of the social filters I could think of. Of course, the list is not complete, and in general it is ordered such that I start out with the group of the worst filters and finish with the group of the best. I have also taken the liberty to sort the list in order of how easy it is to work in the presented situation. Unfortunately, this still resulted in a single list, and so what is presented here is somewhat sorted, a hybrid. Difficult, or bad filters (or even difficult AND bad filters) are at the top and the easier, or good filters (or even easy AND good filters) are at the bottom.
By all means feel free to comment on any of the following situations:
Street Level
We start our tour by examining the street.
Walking up to people on the street and talking to them will not work very well in Baghdad. You can expect the same level of success in most of the other cities in the world, but it does also present a massive challenge to those who really do want to get rejected. The desire to get rejected is an extremely healthy one for a Don Juan, and so maybe the Street Level is not a bad place to get them. Saying that, there’s no way of quantifying how good a social filter this is, because the girls on the street come from entirely random backgrounds.
It is unfortunate that in recent years, approaching on the Street Level has almost become inappropriate, but the modern Don Juan finds ways of overcoming it. However, the street is not a necessary venture. My personal opinion is to avoid approaches on the street.
Work
It is unbelievable the lack of imagination the modern man has for where to get his girl. And he makes a terrible choice when he picks the workplace. Yes, it is relatively easy, and possibly exciting, but he pays for it when the relationship ends. Although it should be obvious to do otherwise, he follows his heart and gets involved.
Avoid going out with women who work with or near you. The short term fun does not make up for the long term, er, pain that is caused when you split. That is, unless you marry – but you should never be assuming that at the start anyway. I have never dated anyone in the workplace, and therefore you had better have a good set of reasoning before you do either.
Clubs
Clubs are horrendously difficult places to get women. If you have LADS, ie looks, alphaness, dancing ability and social proof (or are in a mood to learn them quickly) then by all means try out the club as a venue. Not a very good social filter, mind, except that you may enjoy it if / when a hot woman notices you and takes you home. You may enjoy the enhanced sexual play, but then again, you really do need to have the attributes I just listed in order to be able to pull it off. Then there are other considerations, like disease and the higher chance that you’ll end up in fights because you stole a girl from someone who previously thought they had won her. Without the attributes, your confidence can be wrecked with every girl who dances with you for a minute, or doesn’t dance with you at all.
But I will give you guys a small tip. Learn to dance in front of mirrors. Overdress. Exercise heavily before you go (to get the hormones going and therefore increase your level of confidence), and take two or three guys with you for the social proof. Then, concentrate on having fun first without thinking about girls, and slowly move on to that prospect.
Pubs
Pubs are quite similar to clubs, but I have ranked them higher on the social filters list for a simple set of reasons: they are cheaper, it is quieter, girls are more likely to talk, you can be judged on more than just the amount of meat you have on your upper body, but I still think it is a relatively difficult situation and social filter. Women tend not to appreciate approaches in a pub, especially in Britain, because that is what all men do. Saying all men, what I mean is, a considerable number of desperate men take their desperation out on pub approaches, mistakenly thinking that it is a simple place to pick up women. They are wrong, and you should know this already, but they do present a challenge that should never really be avoided by a Don Juan. Try it a few times, get those bonus rejections, and move on, or perfect your game there.
Don’t get thrown out by bartenders, and don’t go alone, unless you can pull it off (ie: studying for an exam while in a pub).
Public Transport
Buses, trains, coaches, trams, taxis, airplanes or boats are places you spend a small amount of time on while you travel from one place to another, and they host all kinds of female creatures, depending on where the vehicle comes from, and where it is going.
A lot of people neglect public transport because they see it as a meta device – travelling helps you get to your destination, rather than being the destination itself. It can be effectively used as well as the destination. Nonetheless, although a social filter cannot really be applied to the form of public transport, men should use the opportunity to talk or banter with girls in these situations. Who knows, it may help your confidence and get you a number or possibly more, but best of all, if it doesn’t work out, you won’t be seeing them again anyway, and you can even leave at the next stop if you are threatened with impending doom. Not that it is likely to happen.
Park or Beach
If you are alone or in a group you may find it fun to walk around a nearby park or beach, places many girls associate with calmness and sometimes fun. Their personal man-defences will tend to be offline, so long as you approach them in the right way. It’s a reasonably good social filter and it’s easy to tell if your target is taken by a significant other or is single.
To some degree, it is as difficult to approach women in a park or beach as it is to approach them on the Street Level, but a park or beach have unique qualities and attributes that for some men may make it easier.
Introduction
Now that I am back in the circle of untaken men, I thought it would be good to express the wisdom I have gained in the past few years, and hence, I present to you this guide on where to meet good women. Good in multiple senses of the word.
One of the pitfalls that men fall into in modern relationships / dating or seduction is the lack of a concept of where to go in order to get the right girl. Often I used to ask myself: “So, where are the meeting places? Where are the venues?”. Often, the first choice that came to mind was “Go clubbing” or “Chat up girls on the street”. Although they have their merits at times, there’s no way of knowing the type of girl you are talking to and possibly forming a short or long term relationship with. Maybe this guide will be useful if you feel that way.
A social filter is a method of extracting lots of undesirable attributes in women with the least amount of effort. The only action you have to perform is to choose where to meet these women.
A club, for example, is a social filter, but it is not a very good social filter. The reason for this is simple: it’s the type of girl that goes to a club. They may have a lot of issues, they may be too loose (for even a person who thinks or is hoping to be a Don Juan) or they may simply be girls who want a lot of attention without giving anything back. Worse still, they could be future cheating monkeys, always looking for the next, better branch on the tree.
A charitable event, however, is an alternative example of a social filter. In this case, it is a particularly good social filter. Imagine the kinds of girls you would meet if you were performing charitable work alongside them. They would be kind, caring, considerate – and probably emotionally stable. The charitable filter removes a lot of the undesirable attributes and women from the scene, leaving good ones. Sure, it is possible that the women you meet in situations of charity may not look as sexy or as cute as the girls in a club or pub, but then again, I’m sure you have all met a girl who, say, grew up ugly and turned out beautiful (but doesn’t know it yet, shhh!). Or you may find that it is you who needs to change. You will get beyond breast size and appreciate the woman. But anything is possible.
I should inform you that I make no promises. The word “filter” is a very carefully selected word. Applying a social filter does not remove all of the undesirable attributes of women or the undesirable women themselves. Believe me, you will still get unstable girls on campus, but it is possible that fewer of them will exist when compared to the types of girls who go to pubs.
And so, I present to you a list of all of the social filters I could think of. Of course, the list is not complete, and in general it is ordered such that I start out with the group of the worst filters and finish with the group of the best. I have also taken the liberty to sort the list in order of how easy it is to work in the presented situation. Unfortunately, this still resulted in a single list, and so what is presented here is somewhat sorted, a hybrid. Difficult, or bad filters (or even difficult AND bad filters) are at the top and the easier, or good filters (or even easy AND good filters) are at the bottom.
By all means feel free to comment on any of the following situations:
Street Level
We start our tour by examining the street.
Walking up to people on the street and talking to them will not work very well in Baghdad. You can expect the same level of success in most of the other cities in the world, but it does also present a massive challenge to those who really do want to get rejected. The desire to get rejected is an extremely healthy one for a Don Juan, and so maybe the Street Level is not a bad place to get them. Saying that, there’s no way of quantifying how good a social filter this is, because the girls on the street come from entirely random backgrounds.
It is unfortunate that in recent years, approaching on the Street Level has almost become inappropriate, but the modern Don Juan finds ways of overcoming it. However, the street is not a necessary venture. My personal opinion is to avoid approaches on the street.
Work
It is unbelievable the lack of imagination the modern man has for where to get his girl. And he makes a terrible choice when he picks the workplace. Yes, it is relatively easy, and possibly exciting, but he pays for it when the relationship ends. Although it should be obvious to do otherwise, he follows his heart and gets involved.
Avoid going out with women who work with or near you. The short term fun does not make up for the long term, er, pain that is caused when you split. That is, unless you marry – but you should never be assuming that at the start anyway. I have never dated anyone in the workplace, and therefore you had better have a good set of reasoning before you do either.
Clubs
Clubs are horrendously difficult places to get women. If you have LADS, ie looks, alphaness, dancing ability and social proof (or are in a mood to learn them quickly) then by all means try out the club as a venue. Not a very good social filter, mind, except that you may enjoy it if / when a hot woman notices you and takes you home. You may enjoy the enhanced sexual play, but then again, you really do need to have the attributes I just listed in order to be able to pull it off. Then there are other considerations, like disease and the higher chance that you’ll end up in fights because you stole a girl from someone who previously thought they had won her. Without the attributes, your confidence can be wrecked with every girl who dances with you for a minute, or doesn’t dance with you at all.
But I will give you guys a small tip. Learn to dance in front of mirrors. Overdress. Exercise heavily before you go (to get the hormones going and therefore increase your level of confidence), and take two or three guys with you for the social proof. Then, concentrate on having fun first without thinking about girls, and slowly move on to that prospect.
Pubs
Pubs are quite similar to clubs, but I have ranked them higher on the social filters list for a simple set of reasons: they are cheaper, it is quieter, girls are more likely to talk, you can be judged on more than just the amount of meat you have on your upper body, but I still think it is a relatively difficult situation and social filter. Women tend not to appreciate approaches in a pub, especially in Britain, because that is what all men do. Saying all men, what I mean is, a considerable number of desperate men take their desperation out on pub approaches, mistakenly thinking that it is a simple place to pick up women. They are wrong, and you should know this already, but they do present a challenge that should never really be avoided by a Don Juan. Try it a few times, get those bonus rejections, and move on, or perfect your game there.
Don’t get thrown out by bartenders, and don’t go alone, unless you can pull it off (ie: studying for an exam while in a pub).
Public Transport
Buses, trains, coaches, trams, taxis, airplanes or boats are places you spend a small amount of time on while you travel from one place to another, and they host all kinds of female creatures, depending on where the vehicle comes from, and where it is going.
A lot of people neglect public transport because they see it as a meta device – travelling helps you get to your destination, rather than being the destination itself. It can be effectively used as well as the destination. Nonetheless, although a social filter cannot really be applied to the form of public transport, men should use the opportunity to talk or banter with girls in these situations. Who knows, it may help your confidence and get you a number or possibly more, but best of all, if it doesn’t work out, you won’t be seeing them again anyway, and you can even leave at the next stop if you are threatened with impending doom. Not that it is likely to happen.
Park or Beach
If you are alone or in a group you may find it fun to walk around a nearby park or beach, places many girls associate with calmness and sometimes fun. Their personal man-defences will tend to be offline, so long as you approach them in the right way. It’s a reasonably good social filter and it’s easy to tell if your target is taken by a significant other or is single.
To some degree, it is as difficult to approach women in a park or beach as it is to approach them on the Street Level, but a park or beach have unique qualities and attributes that for some men may make it easier.
