"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Social Experiment - I LJBF Myself

Reyaj

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Yep with 2 girls I met recently that were acting flakey and shady after kiss closing I decided to LJBF them first before they did it to me or just disappeared..... Its an interesting experiement..... I'll post more feedback later as am at work :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jonhaul

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I did it to a gal that invited me to her party lol.... Fun stuff. She wondered why I'd do such a thing too.
 
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This sound very stupid and goes against what I have always believed in, but getting friend-zoned is an excellent way to open opportunities and sometimes increase attraction.

My approach to dating now is going to social events, being a decent conversationalist and getting everyone to like me. As opposed to before, where I would be chasing tail. I now have pretty women asking me out on dates or group events where I can use seduction much more effectively. In all honesty, I have had more success and generally happier in life. It really feels good to have people care about you as opposed to being a lone wolf. I'm thankful for that.

Anyway,

Her eyes are the windows to the soul. Pupil dilation is nearly impossible to fake and once you have them wide, there's a 90% chance she wants to have hot monkey sex with you.
 

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I have a tendency to write women off at the beginning as well. If I feel no attraction, (mental or physical), I LJBF'd them. I always trust my 1st instinct, and so far it has not steered me wrong. Women think I'm odd for doing this, but I'm particular in who I have around me......
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dear Reyaj,
This is not your first post here where you mention problems with follow up after kissing...Your Technique?
 
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