"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Social Experiment 101: Internet Dating Ad

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tkman

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Where have you posted this ? I will post the vice-versa

" Hello, I am very shy and like to read books. I enjoy watching the stars at night. On first dates, I will buy my date flowers and chocolate. So please give me a chance ? ":D
 

Viking25

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Both profiles should have the same pic of the avearage looking guy. Then compare the results.
Online dating success is largly based on looks...it seems like it almost doesn't matter what you write. I know this from a 3 year experience...:(
 

Skydiver43127

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Actually, I think the second will work better. The first seems like trying too hard. I'll post you a translation of my last profile, I'm sure you'll get the idea:

I date girls who look good, have confidence and sense of humour (they'll need the last two around me). I'm most anoyed at the ones who take themselves too seriously, get attached too strong, or have some other kind of emotional problems. Oops, I forgot - I was supposed to advertise myself, not describe preferences, or I will lose a potential catch. Well, I'm dumm, unattractive, boring, lazy, no sense of humour whatsoever, I like (the name of an annoying TV show celebrity here) ... uugh... this went too far.
 

sparky1981

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I'd just like to post a coment that the girl i'm going out with currently is 1 i found on an internet dating site. Shes not bad looking and prob one of the best and most fun girls i've been ut with. My point of veiw is if your going to use it that the key is to search their profiles rather than relying on yours to pull them in. Ofton they don't even read yours. A bit like sarging for the net.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GirlCrazy

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I was getting success with those kind of profiles almost 10 years ago (yeah I'm old.)

It's an interesting story about how I stumbled onto having an "aszhole profile".

I was a noob on a dating message board back in about 95'-96', and *several* women sent me private messages saying how much my online profile sucked. One of the chicks was really mean about it, and I replied with something like "ok, I'll redo my profile just for you", and proceded to type the most arrogant, belligerent profile I could come up with.

But instead of replying to her private message, I somehow posted it to the entire board. At first I was really embarassed. But a funny thing happened. My new "profile" got about 100 responses just the first day.

There was still a lot I had to learn about online dating, and just women in general (where the hell was sosuave back then when I needed it?), but let me tell ya, it's pretty easy to learn the ropes with the kind of responses I was getting from my arrogant jerk profiles!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Did you guys take a look at all of her pictures? She says that she's athletic and toned, NUH-UH!!!! Giving her anything above a four would be gracious.
 
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