Hello! I am living in a small town where everybody knows everybody. When I was like 13-14 i was a real geek. When a girl approached me, I thought she was hitting on me, but now I realize that she only was checking me out (maybe tried to make friends with me. Also, I was very egoistic and immature. I know nothing about the social life. So i had no social circle or whatever.
In the age of 15, I saw this stunning looking girl in my sports team (swimming). I realized that it was impossible for me to aproach her or whatever. So I googled and found Sosuave. I read some of the articles and that gave me the bravery to meet, talk and approach girls. So now, I am 16 and have started a new life and in a new school (i think it's like senior high chool in US, we have a very different school system here in Sweden.) I am more comfortable with myself in social situations and I've become a "medium Don Juan" that can handle the most of the social situations.
So now - I tried to ask some girls out, but they rejected me, and i didn't dare to proceed the relationship so I just gave it up. I said to one of the girls "Let's just be friends, it became so weird...". the two girls knew each other and have probably talked about how a coward I am or something behind my back.
Then there is that guy that made himself popular when I was 14. He was my friend. I have gone to three partys in all my life. On the third party I had to get alcohol (legal over 20 years of age here). My friend told me he could fix it. He sold me a bottle of white wine (but the thing that I didn't noticed was that the wine was 50% water and 50% wine). On the images of the party and on the internet - he writes sh!t about me and making fun of me. like "My water-wine did him good" and the replys "HAHaha xD Your so evil" From an other friend, the girl I was hitting on.
So I get this guy that making fun of me, talking sh!t about me and those girls calling me a coward or "strange person" (don't know the word).. I have no big social circle and noone invites me to partys. So here is my question. What am I going to do? I need a greater social circle to be known as the person I am and not be known trhough my "old friend". I need it to to meet girls. So, how do I get this social circle that I need? Proffesional help is needed, if you wonder anything more about me, reply to this post.
Thx
sbgm
In the age of 15, I saw this stunning looking girl in my sports team (swimming). I realized that it was impossible for me to aproach her or whatever. So I googled and found Sosuave. I read some of the articles and that gave me the bravery to meet, talk and approach girls. So now, I am 16 and have started a new life and in a new school (i think it's like senior high chool in US, we have a very different school system here in Sweden.) I am more comfortable with myself in social situations and I've become a "medium Don Juan" that can handle the most of the social situations.
So now - I tried to ask some girls out, but they rejected me, and i didn't dare to proceed the relationship so I just gave it up. I said to one of the girls "Let's just be friends, it became so weird...". the two girls knew each other and have probably talked about how a coward I am or something behind my back.
Then there is that guy that made himself popular when I was 14. He was my friend. I have gone to three partys in all my life. On the third party I had to get alcohol (legal over 20 years of age here). My friend told me he could fix it. He sold me a bottle of white wine (but the thing that I didn't noticed was that the wine was 50% water and 50% wine). On the images of the party and on the internet - he writes sh!t about me and making fun of me. like "My water-wine did him good" and the replys "HAHaha xD Your so evil" From an other friend, the girl I was hitting on.
So I get this guy that making fun of me, talking sh!t about me and those girls calling me a coward or "strange person" (don't know the word).. I have no big social circle and noone invites me to partys. So here is my question. What am I going to do? I need a greater social circle to be known as the person I am and not be known trhough my "old friend". I need it to to meet girls. So, how do I get this social circle that I need? Proffesional help is needed, if you wonder anything more about me, reply to this post.
Thx
sbgm