Social circle game do's and don'ts help?

[Konada]

Been spinning plates outside my group of friends but a couple of months back I met this girl in my social circle which I would like to get to know better. In recent weeks I've been taking it slow because I am in unchartered waters and also because I'm extremely busy. Any advice how to proceed on this? There's alot of repercussions that may happen if I fvck up. I don't really care about being rejected but am more concerned with the BS that might arise from this.

A little background info:
1. I see her 2 times a week in training.
2. I have a class with her and sit next to her, seats can't be changed.
3. We go for lunch after class and head to training after.
4. We had our 1st date though I had to cut it short to attend to pressing matters.

The main issue here is that this circle is closely tied to one of my goals (this is my number 1 concern that it can potentially fvck up a smooth sailing journey) and I really hate to be in a position where I'm "that guy" simply because the amount of shvt I have to deal with if things dont turn out well. Can I risk rejection and the possible drama that comes with it? Is this a case where I can't have my cake and eat it too?

 

[RangerMIke]

The only way you fvck up is if you don't act like a man. If she decides she doesn't want things to go too far... then they won't, let her decide. If she doesn't want anything to happen after you've played your best game, friendzone her and move on.

You will not mess things up with her, just take rejection like a man if that what happens and all is fine. Move on to the next girl.

 

[Konada]

The only way you fvck up is if you don't act like a man. If she decides she doesn't want things to go too far... then they won't, let her decide. If she doesn't want anything to happen after you've played your best game, friendzone her and move on.

You will not mess things up with her, just take rejection like a man if that what happens and all is fine. Move on to the next girl.

My apologies I did not phrase my concerns well enough.

I don't really care if I get rejected or not. I'm more afraid of the BS that might start if I fvck this up, as you know girls are notorious for spreading drama to keep their hamsters running and I really do not want to be that creepy guy.

 

[VladPatton]

My apologies I did not phrase my concerns well enough.

I don't really care if I get rejected or not. I'm more afraid of the BS that might start if I fvck this up, as you know girls are notorious for spreading drama to keep their hamsters running and I really do not want to be that creepy guy.

Doesn't matter, you own up to your actions, that's all. "Yeah, I asked her out, so what? She said no, life goes on" is what you tell them. You're a guy who wants to bang cute chicks just like every other motherfücker out there. No harm in that. Don't get shamed for being a man with a working penis and high testosterone.

Do what you want, never beg or plead for puṣṣy , own your actions, and move on. Drama will repel off of you like water off grease.

 

[LMFAO]

You already had a date with her, you already made your decision.

Stop pu$$ying out with the social repercussions nonsense, if she's in your social circle and isn't banging your best friend or is your teacher or something you have nothing to worry about.

Ask her out for a drink. Kiss her. Fvck her. Get on with your life.

 

[Alvafe]

My apologies I did not phrase my concerns well enough.

I don't really care if I get rejected or not. I'm more afraid of the BS that might start if I fvck this up, as you know girls are notorious for spreading drama to keep their hamsters running and I really do not want to be that creepy guy.

then the only thing I can think of is you really have a LTR with her then you social circle will not hold against you but also be noted things will change, the hard part is trying to think on a outcome on people you don't know, you know then so what you consider then more? also get used to teh idea if things go south she can leave the group or you leave the group, by choice or forced, its up to you to think if the risk is worthy or jsut leave it up and find another girl.

I can tell from experience you are thinking about it for lack of another girl around you

but the thing is always act like it never did happen treat her the same way, but try to withdraw you atencion on her a little over time if things go bad.
also you should consider her trying to use you after she start to notice you like her