"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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taylor2k7

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theres this girl in my class that likes me... shes told me she does, and i can tell from the way she acts around me that she likes me...
but she has a boyfriend... and she keeps alternating between "loving" him, and wanting me... so really im jus sittin back and lettin **** happen...

but i wanna know form you guys how i should approach this...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dude are you me? This exact thing is happening to me, girl has a bf, but obviously likes me too. I guess the only thing to do is to ask her out and see what happens, which is what I am going to do. Dont be afraid of rejection!
 

The Shocker

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steal her
 

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When she's going through a phase of wanting you give her the ultimatum "Then dump him and go out with me. I ain't gonna hang around waiting for you to make up your mind."

After all, you shouldn't be waiting around anyway.
 
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