So your finaly out of the 'Friendship' zone...(all thoughts welcome and appreciated)

[blaze69]

So your finaly dating that friend that youve wanted for what seems like forever, but what do you do now? what do you do to stop yourself slipping back into the friend zone i.e. her losing intrest in you?

The obvious one i can think of is to keep things intresting..(duh!!!) but how? I dont think its as easy as it sounds as its probaly easier to accidently fall back into the friendship zone again than it is to keep her intrested? Having been friends befor the realtionship can strengthen it.. yes! But i also think it could be a pitfall...

I woz just thinking about this (Being in this situation, dont get me wrong im not scared im gona lose her. Im just a deep thinker and heh! ther it was a thought that i thought could benefit maybe some over people..) and thought id see what you lot thought about it and if you can think of any ways to keep yourself out of that 'pitfall' so she doesnt lose intrest. I think this could be a usefull thread, you never no you might be in this situation one day..

(sorry about the use of the word thought so much btw)

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

dude, why are you asking this?

if you managed to drag yourself out of the friendzone, then you don't need to ask this question. your already doing better then most.

don't submit, keep the power and ACT like your in a relationship

 

[blaze69]

Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
dude, why are you asking this?

Im asking mainly out of curiosity. Just wonderd if anybody else thought the same

Originally posted by redbyte
I'm interested in how you asked her out?

Im not sure how exactly it happend. I already new she fancied me from a few nights before when i found out (by accident, was her friends fault, women....) newho... i just acted like it was no big deal and when i asked her she actually said maybe so i just carried on like normal and sliped it in convo everynow and again with a few ****y remarks. Just dont think about it when you/if you do ask her out. Not grate advice sorry but ther's really not much to it..