"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So you wanna get girls huh?? well read this..

Badmannaz

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OK i left this site for awhile because there was just too much crying on this B!tch 4real!!! there are not alot of things to do to get girls....let me keep it simple even though some of you are still gonna find this hard to do...



stop caring about these women!!
Seriously im tired of guys crying over girls...there's so many females around here why are you crying over one.....when your with a new chick don't allow her to get to your feelings...the best way to keep that from happening is fVk another one!!! once you realize there nothing special the faster you'll b less of a PVssy..

Quit Masterbating all the time!!
Most of you guys probably beat your meat everyday of the year....when you do that your decreasing the testosterone levels in your body...that's the sex hormone that gives you confidence and the ability to hunt down a mate...you beating off keeps your mentality beta...so try holding back for a week and go out and try to get some numbers...

Start Caring about yourself
Who gives a sh*t about how she feels...if a girl isn't meeting your expectations dump her ass!! you guys cannot be scared to dismiss a b*tch if she's not putting out or not actin right..like i said be4 there's hella females worry about you and not so much about her she'll actually get turned on by this...wait a minute!!! your too worried about yourself who gives a sh*t if she's turned on!!

LOOK A**HOLES get girls because that characteristic is evidence that you are a real man!!...ALpha males dont Give a sh*t about a girl there to busy doing other sh*t...You'll Attract girls when you no longer want them...because you've established yourself as a challenge

Thank you *steps off the soapbox*
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Great post man, except i think its fine to want girls...just not make it the #1 priority of life...eventho thats ok too...if u don't care about anything else in life to worry about, which is very hard.

The ******* comment is spot on, because they show the traits of being a man plus they trigger Highs and Lows for a woman's emotional states...which is much more exciting to a woman than a guy who can only bring out happy states, i think also triggering the low emotional states in a woman also reassure her that its meant to be(Can handle anything principle)...which is why they'd rather take an ******* than a nice guy...but we all know a REAL Man will satisfy her more than both....which is just our potential as men achieved.
 

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Badmannaz... nice post, and I feel your pain...

It sucks when you come looking for some good conversation about game, and maybe add a thing or two... but for real, I had readched a point a long time ago where I just realized that I had reached a level that was beyond the scope of what this board has come (although not at the level representative of some of the greats, and where this site once was. My harshness shouldn't outshine the thanks I have for the improvements that I've brought in myself).

When it comes down to it tho, this shyt really isn't much more complicated than you put it.
 

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Damn, I agree. When I am out TRYING to get a chick, I get nothing. When I am out having fun with friends goofing around, not paying chicks any attention, they try to start convos with me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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But just remember, don't be ashamed that...if ur looking for chicks...its all a mental thing...unless u look 100% obvious and even then...who cares...u gonna care what other b1tches think of u for going for what u want? U can be having fun with your buddies or just solely be there to game chicks. Doesn't matter...be totally honest with urself. But ur right... the way life works, things come to u when u least expect them which is when time flies by.
 

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Also....we as men should be the ones starting conversations with them more than they do with us, Ryannath...and remember...if ur getting nothing...just improve ur conversation skills or go somewhere where its target rich.
 

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DonJoseCantosie said:
Great post man, except i think its fine to want girls...just not make it the #1 priority of life...eventho thats ok too...if u don't care about anything else in life to worry about, which is very hard.

Thanx and no i don't chase women all day but i do have a healthy appetite for them...I'm Far from an a$s4ole but lately i've developed the mentality of one....See In order for a person to become a player you must be a Self-centered person If someone tells you any different then most likely there not getting none.... that's why i say the game isnt designed for everybody...but yea i just got kinda tired we need more Real Dj's givin some advice on here it went kinda AFC...i think i might start posting som FR'S
For example sunday..i just got done with my main Chick....left her house and went to the club drank about 6 beers and two craneberry and vodka'z (didn't pay for none of it :woo:) number closed on a HB8 nice night if you asked me...

but i'm not asking any of you to try to be like me...but if your going for a girl the last thing these guys wanna do is allow themeselves to FEEL for these girls...thats when you get your face handed to you and you feel like sh*t...so i say f*ck them....Vote for ya'self.
 

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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IT IS OKAY TO MASTERBATE

everything u said is great except this part... if you want do it 10 times a day..
does not change your alphaness...if anything, you will be relieved and care less, and be more of a challenge ;)
 

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TruthHurts said:
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IT IS OKAY TO MASTERBATE

everything u said is great except this part... if you want do it 10 times a day..
does not change your alphaness...if anything, you will be relieved and care less, and be more of a challenge ;)
yea i think ure right, but why 10? couldnt it be a 12:cheer:
:D btw nice post badmannaz
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i think it depends why your are wacken it.

i mean if your not getting any, and your subing wacken it watching porn all the time........... well thats no good. You will have no drive.

but if your horny because you have been getting some, or just soooooo god dam horny....... then fine, at least your able to control yourself better so you dont dog hump the next chick you see.
 

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TruthHurts said:
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IT IS OKAY TO MASTERBATE

everything u said is great except this part... if you want do it 10 times a day..
does not change your alphaness...if anything, you will be relieved and care less, and be more of a challenge ;)
Actually, masturbation tends to put you in a more "relaxed" state, which is where alpha patterns come from. So by masturbating, you are actually INCREASING your alphaness.

Think about it. When do you care the absolute LEAST about what a girl thinks? When you don't want SEX from her! And when is that? Usually after you've had sex or satisfied your sexual urges.

Try whacking it before you go out sarging and see how much more effective you'll be.
 

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Vypros said:
Actually, masturbation tends to put you in a more "relaxed" state, which is where alpha patterns come from. So by masturbating, you are actually INCREASING your alphaness.

Think about it. When do you care the absolute LEAST about what a girl thinks? When you don't want SEX from her! And when is that? Usually after you've had sex or satisfied your sexual urges.

Try whacking it before you go out sarging and see how much more effective you'll be.

i dont see that as effective. after wacking it u tend to have a lower drive, which in turn makes u not want to even talk to girls, let alone pick them up. sex drive is wat fuels attraction. without it y would u even approach women?
atleast that's how it affects me.

if u wack it too much in place of real sex, then ur body feels that is actual sex, and no longer requires a woman. y would need pvssy when u got ur hand right there?
 
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