"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So you think foreign women are easier huh

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The point is not which women are the easiest to control, the point is which culture and legal system is the less screwed up from feminism and political correctness.
 

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None of this would have happened if those agents didn't get sloppy and got caught. That could have happened anywhere.
 

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I agree a 100% it is absolutely about culture

But as my Indian and Chinese colleagues bemoan, every year it seems their native countries fall more and more under feminism's terrible influence.

Get to Brazil quick before feminists get their hands on it and string bikinis turn into 1 pieces!

But to underline it is about control in the sense that old school cultures LOCKED THE WOMEN DOWN UNDER THE CONTROL OF THE HUSBAND, FATHER, OR BROTHER so the men were free to go about their business..farming, blacksmiths, soldiers etc...of course women cheated then as well but with a HEAVY PENALTY...it is this threat of penality (no fault divorce etc) that western society has abandoned that is leading to our demise.
 

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Brazil is dead. Read up on the new "state feminism" laws being passed. Brazil in 10 years will make the US seem like the good ole boys network.

Women will always be women, they will angle for what's best for herself. If that's embracing a husband they will. If its embracing the state, they'll do that too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Many 3rd world women are still just fine. Especially Filipinas, cause they have so much contact with retired American soldiers and sailors. They are very accepting of men much older than themselves. I'm 59, my current lady is 24. :) Until they are here 5 years, you have the ultimate 'club" over their heads. Divorce means deportaion back to whatever sewer they came from, but 5 years older, 5 years "out of touch", and now "soilded" in the eyes of many of her people, especially the men there. She's going to be a very good girl for 5 years. You got some sort of 6 year warranty on a US woman? :) There's millions more just like her, so figure on getting a new one every 5 years and you won't go wrong.
 
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