So, you know the DJ rules, negs, openers..etc.. But what else is stopping you?

[DJnoob]

I just wanted to know, what else are most of you guys are lacking to actually reach your goal? what obstacles are in your way and are you actually fixing that problem to get there.. Map out your problems here..

Top 5 Obstacles in my way right now
1. Financial - I need to work my ass off to pay off my monthly payments and student damn loans.. If I don't work enough hours.. im gona file for bankruptcy.. Im burning $2,000 + monthl and im making less than that with my current job =(

2. I live far away from friends about 30 miles

3. Need to move out of the house and live with roomates to expand my network of friends. ( i need to get #1 out of the way first)

4. Work out more and loose some more weight (i've already lost 30lbs since january of this year which brings me down to 168lbs)

5. Work less and create more free time for myself. Im currently building websites with steady cash flow.

5a. Fine tune my game.

I seriously need to get #1 out of the way. I just need enough $$$ to pay off my debt. Once that is done. Nothing is stopping me. Well, maybe a HB 9.9.

 

[Chipleader]

1. Get a car. I need one for work desperately anyway and I honestly believe a car to be an extension of your personality.

2. I do have confidence talking to girls and getting their interest, but I just cant seem to make things progress because of fear (or probably terror) about rejection.

3. Drill it into my thick thick skull that no matter how painful rejection is, it cant be an worse than the pain of regret Im going through right now as I type this.

 

[Wiesman44]

I dont have my own apartment and that is stopping me from pulling girls from the bars / clubs and bringing them home to fvck. Start my full-time job somewhere in August, so I'm thinking before next summer I'll be all set.

 

[khash]

im 19. in school studying to become dentist, so i have the competition thing in my head and it is unconciously preventing me from going all out on chicks.

I dont have a car.

Dont have any friends who are players( this is REALLY crucial). Most my friends are high school friends and university friends who are not good with women.

I dont have money

I dont have a lotta girlfriends


...the list goes on

But...let me say that at any stage of your life there are going to be things missing and things on your mind...I donno when all of this is going to get sorted out and its pissing me off.


how do you find friends who are good with women???this is my top priority right now!!