Maybe I shouldn't be making this thread since this topic has most likely been posted and reposted many many many times but I felt I should make it anyway. I don't think I'm the only one dealing with the "What next" syndrome. So here's my story.......
So in the past couple of weeks I've gotten 4 phone numbers or emails from girls in the club but to be very honest the delimma comes up to what I'm gonna do with them when I plan to meet them. I just don't have a plan because certian excuses pop up in my head for example:
-I still live with my parents
-They live too far
-My car is too messed up to drive that far (my axle needs work)
-they're not HB9's
-We don't live in the same town
-I might be too busy to see them so why bother.
-Fear that I'm doing the same thing other guys are doing but don't know it.
-I need to read more DJ Bible so I don't say the wrong thing.
-I'm scared that I'll mess up.
- Oh and one of the emails, I got the email but I forgot her name.
Yeah, STUPID excuses pop up like that when I think about contacting them and I have trouble mentally getting around those excuses in my head. So maybe you guys can help me with a link to some information about having a plan and the next step if its supposed to be structured that way.
So maybe another question is, what have you personally done when you've gotten an email or phone number. Invite them for coffee, shopping, movie, party? How did it go and how did you just go with the flow and NOT be so fixated on what will go right or wrong?
It's a shame that I'm worried about this but what can I say, I'm here to become better at dealing with women, not to look good on the forum. So your help wil be very appreciated.
So in the past couple of weeks I've gotten 4 phone numbers or emails from girls in the club but to be very honest the delimma comes up to what I'm gonna do with them when I plan to meet them. I just don't have a plan because certian excuses pop up in my head for example:
-I still live with my parents
-They live too far
-My car is too messed up to drive that far (my axle needs work)
-they're not HB9's
-We don't live in the same town
-I might be too busy to see them so why bother.
-Fear that I'm doing the same thing other guys are doing but don't know it.
-I need to read more DJ Bible so I don't say the wrong thing.
-I'm scared that I'll mess up.
- Oh and one of the emails, I got the email but I forgot her name.
Yeah, STUPID excuses pop up like that when I think about contacting them and I have trouble mentally getting around those excuses in my head. So maybe you guys can help me with a link to some information about having a plan and the next step if its supposed to be structured that way.
So maybe another question is, what have you personally done when you've gotten an email or phone number. Invite them for coffee, shopping, movie, party? How did it go and how did you just go with the flow and NOT be so fixated on what will go right or wrong?
It's a shame that I'm worried about this but what can I say, I'm here to become better at dealing with women, not to look good on the forum. So your help wil be very appreciated.