"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So you can use fat chicks as social proof?

skinnyguy

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I didn't know this.

A while ago I went to the mall with an HB 9 and WOW everyone was staring at me - even grandmas were looking at me thinking "what is he doing with that girl?"

I don't think the effect would have been the same if I were with a 350 pounder.

Can fatties really make other girls jealous if they know they are better looking?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'd say, only if the girl(s) are competing for you. Which pretty much means no.
 

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Yes, however, with the chunksters you would use her as social proof with her slimmer and hotter friends.
 

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if you want to be c0ckblocked at every turn, then yeah use a big gal as social proof. fat girls get jealous x10 compared to girls you want to date.
 

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Probably not no.

Going out with fat girls only tells the hotter girls that you'll fxxk anything and don't have standards.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LMFAO said:
Probably not no.

Going out with fat girls only tells the hotter girls that you'll fxxk anything and don't have standards.
I'm wondering now if women start to think "why is he interested in her?" and then start to get competitive.

Fat girls like skinny guys like me so I can get one whenever I want. Maybe I'll try this tactic and see if it works.
 

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skinnyguy said:
I'm wondering now if women start to think "why is he interested in her?" and then start to get competitive.

Fat girls like skinny guys like me so I can get one whenever I want. Maybe I'll try this tactic and see if it works.

You're playing with fire messing around with fat girls. You'll have a clinger for life and I promise you she will be friends with every single cute girl you meet and want to date from here on out, which in turn will suck for you because girls talk.
 

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skinnyguy said:
I'm wondering now if women start to think "why is he interested in her?" and then start to get competitive.

Fat girls like skinny guys like me so I can get one whenever I want. Maybe I'll try this tactic and see if it works.
I'm skinny as well, and I don't go near fat girls. Just because they like you doesn't mean you should go for them. Only reason to go for them is if you still need some work on your game, or are really desperate for sex a given night and that's the best thing you find (I wouldn't even go there though).

I date HB7s and 8s, not sluts off the street but lawyers and doctors. My last girlfriend was a from a billionaire family. One Chinese girl I dated was skinny but I found her slightly heavier than other girls in the past and I felt like throwing up when she sleeping in bed next to me.

It's all fine and dandy going out with different girls, but girls expect you to have standards, showing around some fatty as a trophy is not going to help you at all with social proof. They won't get competitive, their thinking will be if you fxxk her you'll fxxk anyone. Hardly a catch.

Imagine parading some f**king big bertha in a local shopping centre and blonde HB9s looking at you with Bambi eyes like you're some kind of god. Only in a parallel universe I'm afraid.
 

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^ what he said...but if u dont generally like her, keeping her around for social proof seems silly if ur not happy.

Thats almost like saying, well...im a skinny dyck and ill have hot orbiters, but im still not happy cuz im a skinny dyck.

Youre buying into social proof, you cant buy social proof, and youre your own social proof.
 

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sure if your attractive people would think at least hes not shallow and think actually like her for her personality.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maximus Rex said:
Yes, however, with the chunksters you would use her as social proof with her slimmer and hotter friends.
This, and the key phrase is "use her". Should you go OUT with a fat girl? No. But ultimately any positive attention from other girls will make girls find you more desirable. It's easy to be friends with a fat girl and you can use her to raise your social proof, especially when she is really friendly with you.

For example, if you are sitting by yourself at a social event, it is much better to have a fat girl walk up and say "Starfvcks! How are you!" than to have nobody come up to you. Most likely some of the hotter girls are attracted, or at least somewhat interested in you, and this will raise their interest. The fact that another girl finds you so interesting and cool, means other girls will want to see why.

I see it happen all the time, regardless of who the girl is. It could be a hot chick or my own sister. If you pay even a small amount of attention to body language and IOIs, you will notice a huge increase in IOIs from nearby girls when you are with another girl.

Also, fat girls do have hot friends most of the time and you never know where it will lead. A fat coworker of mine is really into me, but has a BF (thank god), so she keeps bringing her hot friends to parties so they can meet me. I would hate to be caught with a fat girl in public, but in the right circumstances they can help a guy out a lot.
 

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What you do is you friend zone them...hard, and you try to infiltrate their social circle in hopes to find several cute ones you can mack.
 

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skinnyguy said:
A while ago I went to the mall with an HB 9
A 9. That's funny.



Fat chicks don't make good arm candy.




It depends on how you use the fat chick for your "proof" and what you look like.

It depends on what the fat chick looks like. Is she cute? Average? Ugly? A little fat? Really fat? All that matters in your efforts.

If you are going out with her hot women will give you a WTF look if you look better than her.

They will wonder why you are with her.

They will flirt with you.

When your fatty is around you won't have any chances to get it on with chicks you really like.

If you don't look good yourself the hot women won't care cause you will be an even match with the fat chick and they will think you belong together.

Using the fat chick to get to her better thin looking friends is how you should go about it for your "proof" if that's your intentions.

If you don't look good her better looking friends won't be interested in you.

Also some chicks won't be down for that if you're hitting on them under the guise of friends with the fatty if the fatty is telling them you're serious.

Pull women on your own instead of using a fat chick for your proof.

You will have less problems and drama that way.
 

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Some fat girls are really interested in me. Maybe if they show the hotties how interested they are, the hotties might think "hmm what is it about this guy and why do they find him attractive?" Women want what try can't get, or so it seems.
 

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skinnyguy said:
I didn't know this.

A while ago I went to the mall with an HB 9 and WOW everyone was staring at me - even grandmas were looking at me thinking "what is he doing with that girl?"

I don't think the effect would have been the same if I were with a 350 pounder.

Can fatties really make other girls jealous if they know they are better looking?
The first piece of red pill advice I got from my brother when I was like 14. He told me about this guy in his social circle. What this guy did was do stuff like make out, or get bj's (idk the extent) from the uglier chicks. The better looking chicks would get jealous and be like "if he will do that with them or her, what will he do with me".

My brother was like it works, this guys is getting with these hot girls from doing that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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VladPatton said:
What you do is you friend zone them...hard, and you try to infiltrate their social circle in hopes to find several cute ones you can mack.
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to VladPatton again.
 
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