So you botch a common approach..now what?

[gimmeyofonenumba]

When I say botch I mean in terms of failing. When I say common approach im refering to a women that you see on a common basis(work,school,restaurant,etc.). In my instance I totally fVcked up an approach, and now im thinking about it the female classmate really did give me a GREAT oppurtunity to say something to her. I failed to actually say anything, but Did everything else right, Eye contact, Body langauge,etc. Just failed to really say anything to her because we were in a parking lot and I walked by her car as she was getting in, just felt outta place, nah'mean? So now what changes since I fvked up?

A. Make a more ballsy approach?
B. Fvckin forget it and move on?
C. Just keep going about my bizness and pretend to bump into her or somethin?

 

[Palomo]

First impression is important... she may have thought you were a more interesting guy but u kept quiet.. i advise you to just avoid her for a while(with a good body language, of course) and retake that first meet after 2 or 3 days and show her you have something more interesting to talk about than just work or classes

 

[biker_gixxer]

It doesn't sound like you screwed it up, based on what you typed. Body language is 95% of communication so you have that going for you so far.

Just relax and try again, it's a learning process. I promise this won't be the last time something like this happens. What you need to do is look at it as a learning experience, not an F up.

Read some more material and try to get your confidence back because it sounds like you lost a little bit of it.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

Ya my confidence has plummeted completely since I broke up with a girl i dated for a few months. I dont get Nervous at all around women. Just most of the time I dont feel bothered to actually make an approach or spark some interest. Im gonna give it another go with her.

 

[biker_gixxer]

Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
Ya my confidence has plummeted completely since I broke up with a girl i dated for a few months. I dont get Nervous at all around women. Just most of the time I dont feel bothered to actually make an approach or spark some interest. Im gonna give it another go with her.

We all have our 'funk' periods bro, you'll snap out of it, no worries.