So yeah... Im back

[TonyTheTigerOI]

I learned a lot on the way to 1000. By 200 I realized I was going about it all wrong.

?Quantity / Quality?

I had just made my 197th approach. It was ****ing smooth. I had a 25 year old 9.3's #. Woopty ****ing doo. I havent been layed since before christmas. Ive only gotten head ONCE since i started my count to 1000... what a ****ing waste.

Prom seemed so close... and I still didnt have a date. I still wasnt "good enough" in bed. I still didnt know how to approach the girl of my dreams... if she walked into a coffee shop, ordered a drink, and waited for it in line. I had spent two months busting my ass approaching tons of hot girls for NOTHING.

When I was most successful with girls whom I really WANTED... girls a year or so older than me, sexy, intelligent, fun... I was never chasing girls. I was working my ASS off at life.

People are more perceptive than you could possibly imagine.

I am a great actor... I am a fun person... and women could see thru my approaches and sure... they were surrendering their # to the really hot guy with a lot of funny stuff to say... but they werent "falling" for me.

I want girls to fall for me.

I approached three more girls situationally, on my way to the coat rack, then left. Since then I havent counted a single approach. I have made 50-100... gotten a handfull of numbers... gone on a handfull of dates... but im running into the same problem - girls arent falling for me!

Why? Im LITERALLY the guy of their dreams - handsom, smart, fun... confident, charismatic, and charming. WHAT THE **** IS WRONG WITH ME?

Its simple. Since I sent my college applications in I havent been doing much work. I broke my hands again, so I havent been working out. And I couldnt get a job untill I turned 18. Four months of life... WASTED

I am 18. My hand is fixed (via surgery, plates, and screws), and I just purchased 3,000 pages of incredibly interesting reading material.

I will get a 4.0 this semester. I will begin learning more about the world around me. I will work out 5 days a week... and feel healthy again. I will get a job at a resteraunt... and work 55 hours so that I can afford a new car.

And, believe it or not, without efforting random women in bars or social proofing in shopping centers girls will fall for me.

I will smile when I see girls I like, even if they dont smile back - Ill say hello. I will be totally honest with the girls I meet about my life (even my age). I will forget about getting phone numbers (and getting laid) and GET TO KNOW the girls I meet.

I dont want to be that guy who ****ed college girls since he was 16... the guy everyone knows but nobody is friends with. I dont want to be the guy who has to date girls from far away to escape his own rep. I dont want to be me.

I need to change.

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

What do you want?

What do you want... more than anything? I want, in this cronological order:

-Catch up with my schoolwork... spend 3 hours 5x a week on work
-Start feeling healthy again... tan, 2 hrs 5x a week working out, diet
-Secure 2-3 jobs for the summer, so that I can total 55+ hours a week and purchase a new car
-Tighten my standards... girls 17-19 y/o, 8.9+
-Approach more girls WITHIN those tightened standards... basically... I want to approach more girls that REALLY catch my attention and quite pussing out
-Recieve a 4.0 in my poly sci class and a 3.0 in my eng class
-Reshape my body
-Make some spending money
-Find a prom date for my school prom and a date to another schools prom
-Begin reading books that interest me
-Get better in bed

I will employ my fullest efforts to accomplish these goals, one at a time, from here on out. What do you want?

 

[thecraftylefty]

A fresh start is exactly what you need. You're young and have much more to experience, so don't get so down on yourself. You've been here for a while, have the mindset of a winner, and have direction and ambition. Once you get everything rolling you'll be just fine.


thecraftylefty

 

[redbyte]

I actually enjoyed reading your 0 - 1000 thread. It was an inspiration. Made me think, "wow, it really is possible".
You've gotten way further than a lot of us on here have reached. Your a winner! Don't feel down.

Btw those are nice goals.

 

[The Antichrist_Star]

Anthony... :rockon:

Welcome back man...

 

[penkitten]

wb

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

hahaha, you should have heard these rookies crying when you left

glad your back, anth

 

[Void]

wow man....

Zaine told me you posted something new so I came and checked this out.

I'm completely stunned...that was seriously the exact thing I was searching for in my time off. I'm going to start working and changing...Well adios man. If I'm inspired to post again I will. Till then, bye.

and what's up with the new smilies??

haha thanks man

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

Thanks everyone!

Today I went to all my classes, studied for two hours, did some casual reading for half an hour, made a few important phone calls, and went on a date! Lol... looks like im getting back on track quick! This weekend will be the biggest test - I have a host of long term assignments to start, a ton of jobs to interview for, and a few girls id like to get to know better. Ill let you guys know how things go!

 

[Zaine]

...

Words cannot describe...

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

Tiger, at least you can go to prom just be greatful for that. You can dance with a million girls there and then get hooked up on an afterparty and get your pimp on.

 

[Bling]

I was wondering where you went wrong. Not a lot of BJs and f***s for a guy all girls like...especially after 200 girls. I was worrying that I might actually have sex every 10 years.

So you're saying that someone in High School should focus on being a jock, having a job, and being busy so you seem to others that you have a life?

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

"seeming to others like you have a life" is the wrong way to think about it. You want to have a life so you seem fun and interesting to others. And its workin really well so far!