You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hmm... I see, well, how would you go about doing this to meet new girls? I was planning on using this technique to meet a couple of freshmen girls this year(I'm a sophomore myself).Originally posted by 08aisaac
It would be good, but like usually I would make sure that atleast you already know a few of them. And you should be able to pull it off.
School doesn't start for me until the 30th, but when it does, I'll definitely try this out.Personally if you can be genuine and use energy I think you can pull it off.
I did this sort of thing a couple days ago. There was this group of popular HB7-9's at a table I walk up and say "Look at all you guys, i cant belive you didnt invite me to this party" and then i sit down. talked asked me questions, flirted with all of them. Later in the day I got 4 of their numbers but only one escalated into an f close.
I think you can pull it off. Do it and be sure to report tommorow what happens.
- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
This is a really good line, seriously, one of the best! Just make sure you pause between lucky day, and you get.Originally posted by Viper
"Hey Girls, what's up? It's your lucky day, you get to sit with me.".
Just curious, you fvck closed one of the HB's that same exact day? And these are high school chicks?Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Personally if you can be genuine and use energy I think you can pull it off.
I did this sort of thing a couple days ago. There was this group of popular HB7-9's at a table I walk up and say "Look at all you guys, i cant belive you didnt invite me to this party" and then i sit down. talked asked me questions, flirted with all of them. Later in the day I got 4 of their numbers but only one escalated into an f close.
I think you can pull it off. Do it and be sure to report tommorow what happens.
- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
I agree. The girls at my school would be creeped out and just laugh in my face if i were to try this.Originally posted by toddC
i'm not completley an AFC but i'm nowhre near DJ status either but I'd have to say i'd never try this...most girls at my school woudl jsut look at you with a look of disgust lol if you did this hah
Well try and meet everyone. Guys and girls alike, so once you start becoming friends with some of the more popular people, they will of course introduce you to more people, and the girls will just be waiting for you to associate yourself with them.Hmm... I see, well, how would you go about doing this to meet new girls? I was planning on using this technique to meet a couple of freshmen girls this year(I'm a sophomore myself).
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
no not the exact same day. i said COUPLE days ago. Made a date the next day and we f-ed. Yes these are freshman girls too.Originally posted by Zod
Just curious, you fvck closed one of the HB's that same exact day? And these are high school chicks?
That's what I would be doing, sit at their table, then meet them.Nah, you just have to make an effort to meet them.
This will seem weird yeah, but I'm actually more intimidated by other guys than I am woman.Well try and meet everyone. Guys and girls alike, so once you start becoming friends with some of the more popular people, they will of course introduce you to more people, and the girls will just be waiting for you to associate yourself with them.
Alot of people only focus on girls, but you should focus on meeting everyone.
I have an all freshman class, and I am working on this HB8 and her friend. But I am also trying to get to know all the guys in that class.
Just be sure to enjoy yourself.
****, where do you go to school? Sign me up!Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
no not the exact same day. i said COUPLE days ago. Made a date the next day and we f-ed. Yes these are freshman girls too.
- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Creator of "The Smooth Player 056 HS Technique"
Yeah it doesn't sound weird. Just look around and you will find soem pretty cool guys. Like to hang out with or w/e. Doesn't neccesarily have to be a jock or anything, but just whoever. it is good to have an entourage.Originally posted by Viper
That's what I would be doing, sit at their table, then meet them.
This will seem weird yeah, but I'm actually more intimidated by other guys than I am woman.
Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
no not the exact same day. i said COUPLE days ago. Made a date the next day and we f-ed. Yes these are freshman girls too.
- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Creator of "The Smooth Player 056 HS Technique"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.