"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So, who would put up a DJ for the night?

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I was thinking, in the sense of strong community spirit that is prevelant here, how many of you have met, and how many of you would be willing to let people stay round your place if they went travelling?

I'm intersted because I'm intending to go across the world to places like America, Australia, Canada and South Africa, and it would be awesome to find some buddies ready to kick it with. I'd probably be prepared to let a stranger stay at my house as long as I got some details and saw a picture etc...

People willing to put me up in the UK are also welcome to comment.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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penkitten

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well first you gotta make buddies with some djs , then tell them you are coming for a visit and show up hahaha
 

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Yeah, you can stay at my place. One condition.

Beforehand we go out and i get to see what you are made of. If you are not a fun/good/positive person, you cant stay over.

I am all for meeting DJs and doing this sort of thing, as long as it is guys who actually resemble what DJ stands for. (I dont want pillow hugging keyboard jocks at my place. ;) )
 
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