Alright guys, I've been a member on this site for a while, but as you can see by my number of posts, I haven't been around much. I was interested in being a Don Juan back then, but it wasn't urgent to me, it was just there on the side of the "to do" list while I was bullshi'ting around. Now that I have a lot more free time and with my total paradigm shift over these few years, I'm looking to really improve myself in all areas. Being a Don Juan is one of them and I'm looking to get into it with some urgency and really step my game up. I have to start getting comfortable with approaching women and stuff like that.
My first attempt a few days ago didn't go so well, but I'm fine with it. I saw a waitress that lived near me, she said she knows me from somewhere. So I told her she lived on my block and I asked her name. At the end of the night, I told her "hey, Give me your number and lets hang out sometime" and she was like "uhh, I'll just see you around on the block" It was disappointing, no sweat. I'm assuming I didn't really talk to her much to just straight up ask her for her number, what do you guys think?
What I want to know is what are some good comfort challenges that I can use to get more comfortable around hot ass women or groups of women? Where are some good places to go and practice? I'm not doing that well financially, so I can't really go to clubs everyday to meet chicks. I don't want to be robotic with scripted openers, but I'll try whatever I have to to get comfortable; I'll try it all and come back and report.
My first attempt a few days ago didn't go so well, but I'm fine with it. I saw a waitress that lived near me, she said she knows me from somewhere. So I told her she lived on my block and I asked her name. At the end of the night, I told her "hey, Give me your number and lets hang out sometime" and she was like "uhh, I'll just see you around on the block" It was disappointing, no sweat. I'm assuming I didn't really talk to her much to just straight up ask her for her number, what do you guys think?
What I want to know is what are some good comfort challenges that I can use to get more comfortable around hot ass women or groups of women? Where are some good places to go and practice? I'm not doing that well financially, so I can't really go to clubs everyday to meet chicks. I don't want to be robotic with scripted openers, but I'll try whatever I have to to get comfortable; I'll try it all and come back and report.
