"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So where did you get your name from?

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Ace of Flames

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Topic.

I don't know what I was thinking when I made mine, but now I have an idea for it. Ace means one, and aces are usually the best card. Flame can mean lots of things. The flames of passion? The flame of love? A woman being flaming hot?

So Ace of Flames means: The one and only, best of the best, distributer of passion, igniter of love, and pleasurer of incredibly hot women.

:cheer: Yay me. :cheer:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SELF-MASTERY

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use the search feature we have already played this 'game', and it makes more sense to use the other thread that has like 3 pages.
 
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Tomatoes

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Well it aint been done in a while and this forum turns over new members every day so lets keep it running...

Unlike the "Do looks matter" thread that runs twice a week.


Im suprised no one has asked me on here about my name yet. I get asked about it alot when i was in the gaming community. Its been my nick ever since i got the internet about 12 years ago.

Tomatoes.....Its an anagram of my REAL name. (However I treat this forum as my black book so i dont want to disclose that information)

Clever eh? :up:


Sarge On!
 
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