"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So when do I resume contact after no contact? a couple of questions

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Story (condensed from my last post plus additional details)

-girl and me confessed to each other that we like each other and that we will go out again
-the other day, because of me being a spineless f@g might have chased too much (learned the lesson the hard way) that was Tuesday as she gave me the shoulder when i went in for the kiss (now she makes excuses that we are in public, though thats how we say hello and say goodbye to each other since after thanksgiving)
-I deleted her number/texts etc. that same night, she texts
-I did not respond
-I know I am going to see her in campus so now whenever I walk through the hallways I have my sunglasses and earphones on (so I can use the "OH i did not see you/hear you" excuse to people who matters, or to her if she gets pissy about it)
-She texted me once on wednesday and today (a couple of days ago I would have responded, but look at the results it yielded)

a couple of questions
1. What do I do if she DOES confront me about it e.g. "why dont you answer my texts?"
2. Do I still greet her the same way? (with our little makeout thingie)
3. When do I break it? Since I am looking to go out again with this girl and possibly get some, or maybe an LTR, who knows.

I plan to resume contact if she works for it (e.g. calls me, or asks me out) but thats about it......I think I am developing oneitis!
 

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Btw today, she ambushed me as I did the glasses and earphone things yesterday but now she got creative she starts snapping in the air like "hey" and I had no choice but to grunt at her and give her a quick one arm pat hug as I was legit late for class lmao...next time that happens do we ignore her?
 

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Q. What do I do if she DOES confront me about it e.g. "why dont you answer my texts?"

A. "I've been busy"
 
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