"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So when and how can you be vulernable with a woman?

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Poon King said:
Wrong.

Also.. what women "think" doesn't matter. You never have to be vulnerable. All you have to do is have something she wants.

Women DO NOT CARE about anything outside of your ability to meet her needs.
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True... And that includes her emotional needs. Sorry you don't get that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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RangerMIke said:
When you are trying to build a connection with a woman you have to communicate emotionally with SOMETHING she talking about. You do have to be a bit vulnerable when you do this. You do this by owning your story. You talk about yourself in the 1st person. If this makes you vulnerable, then yes you do have to be vulnerable at times otherwise women will think you are a robot.
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Bro I think you are confusing the issues. You can communicate emotionally to what she is talking about, but it doesn't mean you have to be vulnerable.

Being vulnerable is ridiculous, especially if you want to do it for sex. She is not going to think "this guy understands me and lets his feelings out," she is going to think "what a loser, how can I use this against him in the court of law when I need to extract the most amount of resources from him?"

Don't be vulnerbale, that stuff is for Smurfs.
 
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What the fvck do you guys think vulnerable is? Serious question because I really don't think we are talking about the same thing.

Being vulnerable is simply owning how you feel... not being a needy whining tool. It's the difference between speaking in the 1st person (vulnerable) and 3rd person
 
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