"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So when and how can you be vulernable with a woman?

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Poon King said:
Wrong.

Also.. what women "think" doesn't matter. You never have to be vulnerable. All you have to do is have something she wants.

Women DO NOT CARE about anything outside of your ability to meet her needs.
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True... And that includes her emotional needs. Sorry you don't get that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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RangerMIke said:
When you are trying to build a connection with a woman you have to communicate emotionally with SOMETHING she talking about. You do have to be a bit vulnerable when you do this. You do this by owning your story. You talk about yourself in the 1st person. If this makes you vulnerable, then yes you do have to be vulnerable at times otherwise women will think you are a robot.
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Bro I think you are confusing the issues. You can communicate emotionally to what she is talking about, but it doesn't mean you have to be vulnerable.

Being vulnerable is ridiculous, especially if you want to do it for sex. She is not going to think "this guy understands me and lets his feelings out," she is going to think "what a loser, how can I use this against him in the court of law when I need to extract the most amount of resources from him?"

Don't be vulnerbale, that stuff is for Smurfs.
 
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What the fvck do you guys think vulnerable is? Serious question because I really don't think we are talking about the same thing.

Being vulnerable is simply owning how you feel... not being a needy whining tool. It's the difference between speaking in the 1st person (vulnerable) and 3rd person
 
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