"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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navyseal2101

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My friends have a sense of humor:rolleyes: . I played a joke on one and they got me back. I'm not mad, but what they did is call a girl HB8.5-9 on my phone, and i'm not sure what they said, but I do know a few parts of convo. Sex with animals, I talk about her all the time and I wrote about her in my diary. It was pretty funny actually, but now I want to get back to her a month or mabye it's been 2, since ive talked to her. 1) should I text or call and 2)should I act like I know nothing of it or what? Only one of them knows about how close I was to getting with her, and I told him after the fact, so it wasn't rly a ****block intentionally, they thought we were just friends. Anyway what do you guys think? I don't want to just next her for no reason, so don't ofer that as advice:nono: .
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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i had a similar situation. don't let it happen. she might stop talking to you and say "why would you let your friends talk to me like that" or something like that.

yeah i had a hot chick i was talking to... and my friend was messing and talking mild crap to her on an instant messenger because he thought she was a friend only. but the next year at school i asked her why we stopped talking. and she said she didn't know why i let my friend talk to her like that.
 

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Yea, idk if she was mad or not, shes usually rly chill which is one reason I liked her.
 

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hahaha, one of my friends took my cell phone and texted a girl i like with.."hey b!tch when are you going to give me some head"...she said "what?"...and he said "you know when u eat a 12 inch hotdog"...i actually thought it was funny
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So you think I should just text like, "sup" and go from there?
 
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